Discussion in 'Computer Science & Culture' started by sonicgirl, Sep 26, 2007.
I guess thats a No.
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Well here is a quick update- he keeps sending me flowers and putting long letters through the letterbox
Hey orleander this sure sounds like a guy who WANTED OUT lol Good Call :crazy:
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lol, well, lol, I'm ASSUMING he doesn't want her back as much as he doesn't want everyone mad at him, so that is why there is begging and flowers. lol. And JUDGING from his cheating and lying, I think those actions spoke louder as to his wanting out. lol lol
Ahhhhhhhhh yeah whatever you say:crazy:
There really is no point with you.
Not necessarily; I have met men who don't consider sex with an ex as betrayal. Besides, it does not follow that he wanted out, he may love sonic. Some men have difficulty seeing sex as a big deal (when they are the culprits, that is; doesn't hold true when the woman is, of course.)
He sounds like he's not mature enough for marriage.
In that case it must be true then.Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Coming from someone I wouldn't trust, your opinion means nothing.
I'll note you didn't provide an arguement either, but if your spat with sam is anything to go by then that's hardly unusual.
For now I'll continue to agree with sam (and spiders) original arguement;
Quite right too.
some men, yes. But not all. If it was all, I could agree with you, but....
And he knew it was a big deal. Otherwise he wouldn't have lied to her and his job. He jeopardized both for something that wasn't a big deal?
He knew it was a big deal for her; doesn't translate to being a big deal for him. As for work, what do you suppose he could have said. Thats just equal to sneezing into the phone to sleep in on Monday mornings.Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
When women rape kids they are given very light sentences but the other way when men have sex with kids they get the chair! Talk about hypocrisy.
To which advice was given that she should get out. See above.
Related to? Your reading comprehension is letting you down again. It's called an analogy, if you'd bothered to read the post as a whole rather than reading single words you'd realise that.
Clear or not doesn't change morality. Clear is also subjective(see below).
There COULD have been other reasons for his behaviour, people act strangely sometimes, for all manner of reasons, or are you going to deny that?
We only had one side of the story. She COULD have been paranoid and exaggerating, no need to jump to any conclusions.
As I pointed out suspicion is subjective. You encouraged her actions without considering she may be wrong, I quote my first post; "Lets be honest here, if she'd have been wrong you'd still have said she did the right thing. So the majority attitude hardly has any regards for ends and means does it?"
Care to be honest? Had she been wrong would you have forgiven the guy for ditching her over being rash and untrusting?
Something wrong with the attitude of "do unto others?". Care to explain what exactly? If I got caught going through someone's private emails I'd expect consequences, from a partner that would likely include ending the relationship due to lack of trust and foundation for a strong relationship.
So in such situations I advise against such actions.
Well with the question in mind of "is the relationship over" the answer was a resounding yes before she'd even taken any action. Cheating or not became irrelevant, as did the pointless actions taken.
Right she should end it yes, but we all agreed on that. Right she should check up? I think many people would debate that. It was fruitless, amongst other things.
I'm not interested in your attitude of "I'm right you're wrong nanana", it shows your immaturity. I and others have provided reasons as to why it can be seen as wrong.
You've yet to even state if it's right to check up given any small suspicion(which is of course subjective), and if it would still be right to have checked even if the outcome is that you were wrong to suspect anything.
Considering I've not resorted to your childishness that sentence is somewhat ironic.
Just burn the stuff, sonic. Can't go back there.
First don't drop him, use him now. Take him for all you can get! Try to butter him up and asking for EXPENSIVE things then after a few months of him giving you whatever you want, drop him and see how he likes it.
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I would just pack most of that stuff away (letters and stuff) and then in years to come you'll be good to decide what to do with it then. Rent your house and go backpacking across Europe for a year. Not only will this be the time of your life, you'll also be in a great head space when (or if) you return.
OK, you're from England, yeah I forgot, maybe South America, the USA and Asia then? That'd be fun Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
That's a good idea; a change of scenery does wonders for perspective.
Oh yeah GREAT idea...Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! ALOT of people can't just pick up and travel around Europe for a yr.
Why not, he took advantages of her, why can't she do the same to him?
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