Masterbation: how often?

How often do you masterbate?

  • I'm male, I never masterbate

    Votes: 1 9.1%

  • I'm female, I never masterbate

    Votes: 1 9.1%

  • I'm male, more than once a day

    Votes: 2 18.2%

  • I'm female, more than once a day

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • I'm male, every day or two

    Votes: 2 18.2%

  • I'm female, every day, or two

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • I'm male, once or twice a week

    Votes: 4 36.4%

  • I'm female, once or twice a week

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • I'm male, once or twice a month

    Votes: 1 9.1%

  • I'm female, once or twice a month

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • I'm male, rarely

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • I'm female, rarely

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
    11
Wisdom_Seeker said:
You say that is a necessity
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No, actually I didn't.
I was responding to those who do.

Wisdom_Seeker said:
As fact, I saw that after ejaculating I felt very weak, and it does weaken your mind as well.
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That's a matter of opinion, and you are welcome to yours.
I think it is largely a mental factor how it affects you.

Wisdom_Seeker said:
Now that I have spent this much without ejaculating, I can tell that when I used to do it, I got about 15 "boners" during the day. I was a horny bastard. Now I don´t. I only get horny when needed, and my fantasies have diminished BIG TIME.
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I don't even know where to start.
Let me just say that different people have different approaches that work in different ways for different libidos, mental states, physchological makeup, physiologocal makeup and a million other factors.

On a more general note...
In my humble opinion, complete abstinence from something does not strengthen self-control. If anything it weakens it. It takes MUCH more strength, self-discipline and self-control to eat ONE oreo cookie, than to never have Oreos again.
As in everything else, balance is key.

Everything in moderation, including moderation.
 
EmptyForceOfChi said:
you beat your meat while reading bells posts. i do it while reading one_ravens. and i read 5-6 of his posts per day.




peace.
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hey Mr Chi,

how goes it?

I am afraid this can not be done as the Amazing bell's Amazingness is too great.

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take it ez
zak
 
Orleander said:
and your wife doesn't mind the fact that you don't finish?
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She knows the reason, but she gets hers... plus most of the times with her I finish (I can´t resist her, I love her), but I practice a little tantra technique for not ejaculating outwards. So I get an orgasm alright, but I don´t ejaculate, this also means that I can keep going when I get the method right.
 
madanthonywayne said:
Please. Why do male porno actors make way less money than female ones, unless they go gay. Why are there way more female prostitutes than male? And the male ones probably have mainly male customers. Why are there hundreds of magazines for men to masturbate to, but only one for women? Why are there tons of strip bars in my hometown, but not a single one with male strippers?

The male sex drive is orders of magnitude stronger than the female one. Women "consent" to sex, men will beg for it, pay for it, or whatever it takes.

If this poll hadn't been unjustly cesspooled, we'd have some hard data.
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Personally, I think "chicks" dig sex just as much as men. Men are just the testosterone laiden aggressor who naturally go out and seek those "chicks" who are waiting to be found.

The reason porn queens are paid more than their male counterparts is simple hormonal economics. Men want to see women in the act, not men. The same concept equally applies to prostitution. Men seek out, women are "found." Of course we're talking generalities here; some women are quite aggressive. Which is why I say it depends on the woman.

And for the record, I would never beg or pay for sex.
 
Learned Hand said:
The reason porn queens are paid more than their male counterparts is simple hormonal economics. Men want to see women in the act, not men. The same concept equally applies to prostitution.
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Yes, men want to see women in the act. But what about women? If women masturbate as much as men, why don't their preferences affect who gets paid more? After all, there are more of them than of us.
 
madanthonywayne said:
Yes, men want to see women in the act. But what about women? If women masturbate as much as men, why don't their preferences affect who gets paid more? After all, there are more of them than of us.
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Simple. Most women, I believe, are less aroused by visual depictions of the act. Sure, there's Playgirl and 1 male stripclub to every 500 prick-teasers, but not much else. There's just little demand. I've known some women who don't mind watching the boob tube (pun intended) while with their partner, but for the most part, women generally prefer the use of their own imaginations. Again, I think, it depends on the woman.
 
madanth said:
Yes, men want to see women in the act. But what about women?
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Women read trash fiction. Their eyeballs aren't wired to their arousal glands.

And when they want to see the act, they want to see another woman in it usually - they want to see what the woman's doing. Empathy.
 
Women's libidos are driven more by emotion and touch.
Men's libidos are more driven by thought and taste/smell.
 
iceaura said:
Women read trash fiction. Their eyeballs aren't wired to their arousal glands.

And when they want to see the act, they want to see another woman in it usually - they want to see what the woman's doing. Empathy.
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what would you call trash fiction?

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anyway i think everyone will masturbate in they're time, its just will they admit it
 
Orleander said:
ummm, no. ??
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Whenever the deed is done, bad luck always follows. Like my friend had a uni deadline and only had two days to complete everything and she decided to the treat herself and the following day she caught the flu. Seriously Who catches the Flu in summer?? Its all down to the bad luck!!!

P.S when i say 'my friend' i mean me, it's just more anonymous and less embarassing that way.

Dragon: How becomes you don't believe in Astronomy??? I bet you are a pisces
 
Orleander said:
I've never been good at pretending.
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I'm sorry to hear that.

Well, most women are, and can have emotional fantasies while masturbating.
They will often have fantasies with long, complex, drawn-out fantasies with dialogue, plotlines and heroes.

Guys just generally picture the neighbor's wife or daughter having sex with them.

It's a lot like the difference between porn marketed to men and porn marketed to women.

Most men will get turned on watching a video of a woman masturbating, it generally doesn't work for women to watch a man masturbating.
Most guys love watching lesbian sex.
Most women don't get turned on by gay sex.

Men and women are different, and not just the packaging.
 
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