You are still not making much sense. You seem to think that others who are not "confused" as you put it or who do not have a legitimate reason to be confused.. As though it is only those with an XXY chromosome, for example, who have a legitimate reason.. And the whole taught and learn argument you are leaning towards.. Do you think we are taught our genders? In other words, do you believe that one's gender is what we learn or are taught? How, exactly, would a paedophile find someone who is transexual, for example, advantageous? How does paedophilia even enter the equation? You have not really clarified your stand or answers. You have just created more confusion and more bizarre arguments. Not to mention your whole oddball thing now also includes paedophilia, as though if one does not have a legitimate reason, they somehow fit into the oddball group, which includes paedophiles. Perhaps this is not what you intended, but that is how you are coming across. Why do you say "genuine"? Do you think that there are those who are not genuine? It's not exactly a choice. They know what gender they truly are. And sometimes it does not fit with what they are born with. It's not as though they one day wake up and go 'oooh I think I'll be a different gender from now on'.. In an ideal world, society would mind its own business. Who are the experts? I don't exactly know how this is obvious to anyone but you.