Email password cracking

Discussion in 'Computer Science & Culture' started by sonicgirl, Sep 26, 2007.

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  1. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    How can you say that? You don't live with the guy, and know nothing about him. You don't know if he is acting strangely.

    If she has suspicions she could be right. She could be wrong who knows.
    I don't think its foolish though. Women that I know that suspected something was going on, and did some investigating and checking found out exactly that "CHEATING" while all along hearing that exact thing "you are being paranoid"
     
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  3. MacGyver1968 Fixin' Shit that Ain't Broke Valued Senior Member

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    Then dump him.

    Sonic...but what if he DID find out. How would you explain that to him? There are many "old fashioned" ways to tell if he's cheating without resorting to violating his privacy.
     
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  5. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    Don't listen to SAM........when your with someone for that long, YOU KNOW when something isn't right! I agree. If I was that suspicious I would try to find out what I could too. You need to be creative in your investigating

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  7. redarmy11 Registered Senior Member

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    No, no, no you misunderstand. It's Plazma, he doesn't like me playing with the new recruits. I can be a bit heavy-handed sometimes and, without meaning to, I sometimes break their dollies.

    I likes breaking their dollies.

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  8. S.A.M. uniquely dreadful Valued Senior Member

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    Maybe he has other problems: health, economic, worried about wedding, adjusting to change in single status permanently. Maybe he's trying to protect you. Your espionage could make things worse, not better.

    If you know him so well, then you need to figure out if he's the unfaithful type or if he still has feelings for his ex. In any case, spying on emails is petty behaviour and does not bode well for your future relationship with him.

    Be direct. Talk to him, tell him you are worried about him, about your relationship, you feel uncomfortable because his actions create suspicions in your mind. Ask him if he is still committed to you and the relationship. Then either trust him or take a break to work out what you want.
     
  9. sonicgirl Registered Member

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    I have tried to find out anything I can but nothing concrete. I find his possesiveness about his phone very strange, but cannot get records of calls as he is Pay As You Go & so there are no bills

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    I do try to get into his phone but he never leaves it switched on and unattended. I mean if we are in a restaurant & he goes to the bathroom he takes it with him!!??
    When I asked him he said it was in case he missed any important 'work calls' or calls from family regards the wedding
    I really need to get into his email, i know its bad, but Im running out of time & if he is a cheater Id rather know now than when Im married to him!! :bawl:
     
  10. John99 Banned Banned

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    Well, TBH. Fooling around with an ex-gf is common and its not like cheating because men figure it is one more time. i fooled around with my ex for years after we broke up, it was great too

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  11. Stryder Keeper of "good" ideas. Valued Senior Member

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    Ah but do you like breaking their dollies because your mean, or because you want to learn about what makes their dollies tick?
     
  12. S.A.M. uniquely dreadful Valued Senior Member

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    I think he would be lucky to get away from you. You sound like a paranoid freak. :crazy:
     
  13. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    It could make things better for her.......to find out either way now.

    How do you go about figuring out if he is the unfaithful type?:shrug:
     
  14. sonicgirl Registered Member

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    ^ Sam you are really harsh!
    What do you suggest I do? Bury my head in the sand & pretend everythings cool?
    Marry a cheater & find out 10 years down the line! Its better to know FOR SURE isnt it??
     
  15. sonicgirl Registered Member

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    I dont know if he is the unfaithful 'type' I mean he has no track record, with me anyway. But his ex is a manipulative piece of work and is always turning up at places where we go with friends & I just think its a lot of temptation for a guy whos young & about to marry!
     
  16. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    SAM spends all her time Moding on Forums. I doubt she has a man!
    I wouldn't pay any attention to her.

    I guess all the women that found out their partners cheated on them
    were just paranoid freaks too.

    Considering how many members here have talked about being cheated on, how is this so far fetched?
    crazy? paranoid? impossible?
     
  17. S.A.M. uniquely dreadful Valued Senior Member

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    Consider your options:

    1. You are right. He is having an affair. Time to go

    2. You are wrong, he is not having an affair. So, you misread him and this will be a pattern in your relationship. Not looking rosy.

    3. You are insecure in your relationship, because you have reason to be. Past infidelities?

    edit: okay no track record.

    What about health, economics, family.

    How is everything there? Is he the chatty, share his emotions type, or the strong silent type?
     
  18. MacGyver1968 Fixin' Shit that Ain't Broke Valued Senior Member

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    You said you have been with him for 6 years, has he cheating on you in the past?
     
  19. John99 Banned Banned

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    Exactly.
     
  20. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    If you are this concerned that he is doing something that makes you distrust him then just stop seeing him. Why go through all of this crap only to find out that you are right, then what will you do?
     
  21. S.A.M. uniquely dreadful Valued Senior Member

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    Feel vindicated.

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    That is why most people do such things, imo.
     
  22. sonicgirl Registered Member

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    Ok. He is a normal, chatty guy. Everything else is cool in his life- work, his family etc. No probs with anything, that I know off.
    I am suspicious, because
    1) His ex has recently got in touch & she is known to be a man eater & flirt.
    2)He has suddenly got very guarded about his phone
    3) He changed his email password very quickly after telling me it
    4) He never checks his email at home any more
    5)General slightly 'odd' behaviour that I cant put my finger on, but I know & just feel something is amiss
     
  23. sonicgirl Registered Member

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    If I find out and he is cheating then Ill dump him
    I dont think that the predominant feeling of ending a 6 year relationship and throwing away my wedding and future, will be one of 'vindication'

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