You only have "respect for all" if they behave a certain way towards you and basically give you what you want.
Nonsense Bells, absolute nonsense and you know that.
If you had "respect for all" you would address them appropriately and certainly not act in a manner that could make them feel uncomfortable or harassed. Particularly when you are in a position of power over them. And that is what you deliberately keep ignoring.
I address all appropriatley and no one feels harassed, including myself when addressed in such casual fashion.
Pay particular attention to issues like terra nullius, genocide, stolen generation and how white Australians simply took and gave 0 fucks about others. That is the stereotype you live up to. You don't give a shit about others, how they may feel, how they are perceived and how they should be treated and you instead prefer to simply force your will onto others, address them as you want to instead of how they may wish to be addressed (the name tag is usually a huge indication fyi) and damn how they feel about it.
I know my Australian history well enough Bells, and I know the wrongful and terrible time we put the local indigenous inhabitants through also, and thankfully most of that is being redressed, as it should be, but just as obviously we also cannot turn back time. Not sure what any of that has to do with women, idigenous folk, young and old, calling me Luv, or sweety...I was never offended and like most casual banter, I also reciprocated wasn't even noticed until certain people chose to make a song and dance about it here.
That's nice. Frankly I am not surprised it's Maroubra, given your attitude here.
Not to mention you are completely ignoring the point.
Maroubra is a lovely suburb, recognised of course by one of our best surfing beaches.
Not sure what point you are trying to make.
Perhaps you should apply the same logic to the women you openly harass and then boast about it.
You aren't with them 24/7, you don't know how they feel about how you address them and how they may prefer to be spoken to or made to interact in the course of their employment.
I know it in my case, by the manner in which they address me.
If they objected to me addressing them as Luv or matey, I'm not real positive that they would address me that way. If what you say were true, logically they would see that to make their point [if it existed] they would address me as Sir or Mr or whatever.
So you've asked these women how they prefer to be addressed when dealing with you in the course of their work day?
Going to guess the answer to that is no.
I won't say you are completely oblivious to how they feel. It is obvious that you simply do not care about how they feel in regards to how you address them.
It's not the norm. Far from it. It's the norm around people who know one another. It is not the norm for how we address people while they are doing their job.
If a manager tried to pull that shit on a staff member, they'd be fired for harassment and rightly so. Yet you think these women should accept it from customers because you think it's "the norm"?
Pull what shit Bells? A Manager would obviously know his staff and address them by their names, but sometimes too, maybe mate or Luv? I'm sure that would have happened without any sublime messaging, hidden agenda or attempts at sexual assault.
It's all casual, every day banter Bells...so casual it passes without any flinching or even thinking about. If it didn't, and not withstanding your paltry excuses, I would stop, just as I'm sure they would stop if they knew I was offended by such casual banter. I'm not. They're not, and that's the crux of it all.
You want to keep boasting about how you inappropriately treat women in the course of their employment and try to hide behind "it's the norm"?
Nup again Bells...not boasting and hiding behind nothing that isn't fact.
Except that you are trying to force what you believe to be the case, down my throat, and I'm pretty sure if I wanted to take the time, I'm sure I would find a contradictory post to your "no one said they are"
Everyone is saying to perhaps be mindful that they could be and to perhaps save the pet names for people we know and are used to, than complete strangers who one approaches with an opening salvo of pet names..
I'm mindful thanks Bells, and I thank you sincerely for reminding me of that possibility, and as I have said many, many many times, if it did happen, I would cease with such banter.
So why all this nonsense then?