Pandaemoni
Valued Senior Member
I don't really "get" the "I won't apologize" thing. Apologies are inexpensive niceties, not admissions of personal guilt. When someone tells you that their mother just died, the typical response is to say, "Oh, I'm so sorry." When you say that, it doesn't imply that you were somehow complicit in the death of their mother. Under the logic of those who steadfastly maintain that apologies for slavery are a bad idea, I assume they utterly refuse such niceties when another's relative passes away.
Besides that, America did have some minor complicity in slavery,as did the states, as did many organizations that still exist in America (like, the older universities and several corporations that have survived through mergers). As citizens, members, faculty, student, shareholders or whatever the level of "graciousness" owed only increases.
If, when I attended school, my university president had said "U.S. troops are terrorists," I can imagine that would upset many people (even many people who are not in the service and who have no family in the service). I would have no problem, not even as an alumnus, in saying "I'm sorry for what happened. I certainly don't agree with him and apologize that he upset you." That would certainly be a better response than, "I'm not apologizing for anything! If you don't like that, you should resign from the military! And if you're not in the military yourself, STFU." Apologies are a matter of simple human sympathy.
Reparations are another matter (some of the States, in particular, might certainly have theoretically owed reparations to someone at some point in time, just out of fairness). In that case it's too impractical to seriously consider, and too costly to administer.
Besides that, America did have some minor complicity in slavery,as did the states, as did many organizations that still exist in America (like, the older universities and several corporations that have survived through mergers). As citizens, members, faculty, student, shareholders or whatever the level of "graciousness" owed only increases.
If, when I attended school, my university president had said "U.S. troops are terrorists," I can imagine that would upset many people (even many people who are not in the service and who have no family in the service). I would have no problem, not even as an alumnus, in saying "I'm sorry for what happened. I certainly don't agree with him and apologize that he upset you." That would certainly be a better response than, "I'm not apologizing for anything! If you don't like that, you should resign from the military! And if you're not in the military yourself, STFU." Apologies are a matter of simple human sympathy.
Reparations are another matter (some of the States, in particular, might certainly have theoretically owed reparations to someone at some point in time, just out of fairness). In that case it's too impractical to seriously consider, and too costly to administer.