So how do you interpret the comment by NASA:
"You would be forced to conclude that either Earth had more mass than you had supposed and hence a stronger gravitational pull, or that the theory you had used to make the calculation was in error"
In an earlier post, I already told you that it is always possible that current theories are wrong in one way or another. The quote here just says the obvious: if you have a physical system that doesn't behave the way your theory predicts it should, there are two obvious possibilities: (1) the data/assumptions/measurements about the system that you're feeding into the theory are incorrect, or (2) the theory that you're using to analyse/interpret the data, or to predict other features of the system, is incorrect.
In the case of dark matter, we have a number of observations that strongly suggest "missing" mass. So, following the above schema, here are some possible solutions:
1. There's something wrong with our observations - maybe we've somehow "missed" recording visible mass.
2. There's something wrong with our observations, in that we haven't detected mass that is actually there in some form but "invisible" to our current detection methods.
3. The observations are correct, but our best current theories are wrong in that they require "too much" mass, for some reason that we don't yet understand.
Three possible research programs suggest themselves, in consequence:
1. We should think about how we could possibly be "missing" visible mass in our detectors.
2. We should think about possible kinds of matter that our current detectors are insensitive to, and try to build new detectors that are sensitive to those "new" kinds of matter.
3. We should consider possible modifications or replacements of current theories, such as might be able to account for the observations we already have but without the need to introduce new kinds of mass that are hitherto undetected.
All three of these research programs have been or are being pursued. At this stage, most physicists are skeptical about possible solution number 1. Out of options 2 and 3, the most promising one at this stage looks like option 2 - that there is a hitherto unnoticed form of "dark matter" that adds "extra" mass, thus accounting for the observed anomalies. Option 3 is also in play, but to my knowledge nobody has yet produced a viable alternative theory of gravity (or whatever) that would adequately account for the observational data we have, without the need for dark matter.
You, QQ, have told me that you believe that solution 3 is the correct one. You haven't said why you think it's more likely to be correct than 2, and you haven't given any good reason why you think 2 can be ruled out.