yes the baby uses the mother "woman" to grow thats how the baby is made. But woman know that having sex can lead up to having a baby. I mean anyone can be smart enough to know that. And if you are not ready or not wanting a child. Then do not have sex or fix the prob. Like you get fixed or stay on the pill or put that thing in that stops you from having a child for like 5 years or more. Or If you are only sleeping with one man and in a relateship and he do not want kids get him fixed. I am just saying how fair is it to that child to be to take a life.. You are saying It is not a baby well the egg is always the baby but not formed yet. It grows and grows by the time you can have an abortion. Its already a baby. In my eyes its a baby as soon as the hpt says your pregnant. Like I have said My husband and I didnt attend to have a baby He never wanted kids I didn't want them right now... But our thouht was how can we make a life for him/her what can do. It was never lets go and abort the baby. Never cross our minds. But thats what kind of people we are. I am now 23 weeks he is kicking moving he can even cry now suck his thumb. He has fingernales hair all over his body eyes are starting to open. And I am 6 months and a day. So your telling me he is not a baby. He has ears that can hear our voices. And when I play music that he likes he moves so much. He is a baby. He has a little nose a spine feet ten toes. No matter how long this debate goes for I wont agree with you any of those who say he is not a baby. And you wont agree with me. So what is the debate really about. Well this woman went to go and abort a baby she was far enough along to where it was a baby. It was not right for them to watch this baby take a breath his/her #1 and only breath. And stuff it in a bag and throw it away like it was trash and the mother wants to sue. She knows how the abortion goes. She just wanted to go in get rid of the baby and not think of it again. I have told this story to my father in law friends my husband. They all say the same thing how can someone do that. Or do not tell me that It just pisses me off to hear something like that. It was not okay to abort that baby nothing was wrong with her or that baby she just didnt want it. And you all know it is painfull right to the baby how they do abortions. How they rip there tiny arms and legs apart. Never the less I know morals that I have and with that I know it is wrong what that woman did. She does not have the right to sue she knew what in the hell she was getting into.