09-13-07, 09:39 AM #41
09-14-07, 01:04 AM #42
Having a girlfriend made me the happiest I've ever been. Though I think the act of sex itself is overrated, being close to a woman, being friends with her, and having her share your bed is not. Spooning up against a woman, running your hand down her side, feeling the taper of her waist, and the curve of her hip, combined with the velvet softness of her skin; or having her spoon up against you, and feeling her breasts press against your back. The smell of her, mixed with her shampoo and lingering perfume; all wonderful beyond words. And the misery of having her leave made all of that irrelevant.
Is a person born asexual or made asexual? (maybe through child sexual abuse)
I think sexual abuse can make someone choose to not have sex, or subvert their desire, but I don't think it can make it disappear entirely