Hi Crunchy Cat, Zak, all..
Guess what, I feel guilty

I realized that I noticed Nik's changing far earlier,
but I didn't do much.
That day after the locking of this thread where Spurious nominated Nik to be
mod of Architecture & Eng (
http://www.sciforums.com/showthread.php?t=73861),
nobody said anything (as far as I know). I think that the nomination was, like
you said, just to be pain for the moderator, and Nik himself actually did not
have any wish to be mod. But eventhough so, when admin locked the thread,
probably he felt unappreciated. Worse is, nobody tried to defend him.
If you read his post history, he still cheerful and all before the locking of the
thread. After the locking, he still posted one post the next day (
27.11), and
then he was off for 3 days. On
30.11 he post one message, just commenting
on my coming exam result. At that time I haven't realized the change because
I was busy with other stuffs. So I just asked him, how is everything going on
with him. Two days after that (
01.12) he post again one message to
this forum, just to say that he is "dead":
http://www.sciforums.com/showpost.php?p=1654284&postcount=77
Maybe he was trying to send me message that he feel sad or disappointed,
but I thought he was joking as usual. So I (and some other) replied with joke.
But, he did not reply our joke, he post nothing for 3 weeks. So I sent him some PMs.
I sent PM already on
30.11, and then
04.12-08.12, he replied me just like normal.
So I thought he was just not in the mood to post.
He started to posting again on (
20.12, but he was changing. He became
a bit cynical and he also didn't talk to me (but there are so many people in
this forum, maybe its not possible to talk to everyone). But I started to think
something was really wrong with him. So on
24.12 I sent him PM again,
I asked him, whether he had problem. Its not ethical to repost PM on public,
but I can say that his reply was positive. He said me he is ok and then he
grins

D) 3 times like that.
But like you see, he is apparently not ok! I am not close with Nik, I mean,
I've been trying to be formal friend with everyone (because this is just
internet), but like you, I do also sometimes notice when things are unusual.
I just don't know what to do about it. I wanted to say something when his
thread was locked by admin, but I have no enough courage. Besides, I
understand admin decision, there was no urgent need of moderation for forum
which is among the least active subforums. Uhm.. maybe it was the approach
that a bit uhm.. cold.
Uhm, I wanted to say something also to Zak.. Zak, I dont think you should be
against Crunchy Cat, you see CC actually expressing concern for Nik. CC cares
for Nik and for the forum well-being as well. Anyway CC, I suggest you to
send PM to Nik. I am sure he already read this thread, and he has time in hands
because you see he is still posting on other subforums today. Maybe PM will
work.
I am sorry, I will be a bit busy for some homeworks today, but I'll try to keep up...