Ok, I'm going to have a rant.
RJBerry, you are attempting to make claims and predictions about one of the most complicated theories of physics there is. You don't know any GR other than that which is written in pop science books, yet you seem to think this provides you with enough knowledge to make claims and conjectures about said theory. Looking at things as complex and bewildering as black holes requires one to study the details, in depth. And in GR, details means maths, and tough maths at that. It is utterly naive, and a little arrogant, to believe that you shouldn't have to jump through the same hoops as everyone else. People such as yourself seem to want to drop flashy lines about "quarks, black holes, event horizons...", but aren't willing to put in a little effort and get your hands dirty.
I implore you, learn a little humility and go back to the basics. Go through a book on classical mechanics, then on special relativity, then on quantum mechanics, then look at some GR. You will find these sorts of conversations much, much more enjoyable if you could add a little more than a vague armwave and a word salad. The more you put into learning the physics, the more you'll get back. I'm sure all the people on this forum would be more than happy to help you through exercises in text books and help you through all the stages of the aforementioned topics.