That's exactly the reason why no one could just tell her to dump him outright, after all it's her life, her emotions and her emotional ties. Hopefully she hasn't done anything stupid because of him though (in regards to her self).Well she was with him for 6 yrs before this seemed to come out of nowhere.
She must have loved the guy alot to have been considering marriage. It's easy to say but when you love somebody that much breaking it off is VERY VERY difficult. She was probably holding on to some kind of hope that her suspisions were bogus, all in her head, but she knew in the back of her mind that she was probably right. She had to make sure 100% so it would give her no way out, in justifying staying with him anymore.
I have to admit there's been multiple times where I have tried to warn my sister off men, she doesn't listen, she moves too fast and then once she's done whatever she's done she feels a little upset that she did what she did even when I told her not to and usually her feeling of elation subsides when the guy that I tried to warn her about starts ignoring her or becoming too busy to see her.
It basically got to the point that I can't do anything to aid her before she makes her mistakes, although I do get to hear all about those mistakes afterwards
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