spidergoat
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None of which was used for abortion because federal funding of abortion is illegal.Planned Parenthood received $363.2 million in "Government Grants and Contracts." in 2008-2009.
None of which was used for abortion because federal funding of abortion is illegal.Planned Parenthood received $363.2 million in "Government Grants and Contracts." in 2008-2009.
You're telling me that they could survive without that funding?None of which was used for abortion because federal funding of abortion is illegal.
Not in their current form. Which would be a tragedy to women and abortion foes alike; most of the reduction of abortions over the past few decades has come about because of organizations like Planned Parenthood, which provides education and birth control to women who want to control whether or not they get pregnant.You're telling me that they could survive without that funding?
And none of it was spent on abortions...oops.Planned Parenthood received $363.2 million in "Government Grants and Contracts." in 2008-2009.
They might be able to keep doing abortions, but they'd have to cut back on the other 97% of what they do.bowser said:You're telling me that they could survive without that funding?
Bowser said:You're telling me that they could survive without that funding?
that is correct: i [personally] didn't mention it, it is a definition as linked, as you can seeDid you just say that you didn't mention those words in your post, but you did when you posted the definition?
actually, they are.There can be. However, the two aren't always mutually exclusive.
it is not about putting forward facts, or even the number of said facts that someone is not aware of: that is irrelevant.I can argue with a certain bias, but still put forward data or facts you weren't previously aware of.
it is a form of anecdotal information, thus it is biased.And even if I had no data, you'd still be exposed to a different perspective, which is a form of information.
No, my specific argument is that urging can be considered Coercion.You (and a number of other outraged individuals on this thread) have argued that urging a woman to have an abortion is anti-choice
well, just to be perfectly clear:I want someone, anyone, to demonstrate to me how arguing in favor of a particular action reduces the choices available to the audience. I've put forward this simple request what must be 4 times now, and people keep skirting around the issue.
I think that i have made an pretty fair argument for the point you asked to clarifyThey natter on about influence and coercion, or ask me to clarify how I feel about abortion (as if that has any relevance to the claim they made), but they can't support what is a very clear-cut statement.
I think i did just that aboveJust show me how arguing in favor of a particular choice reduces the choices available to the audience.
uhhhmmmmm..... !!??? wat?Why is abortion needed in the first place, if there are so many precautions available that can preempt the need?
Congratulations. You've met Wellwisher.uhhhmmmmm..... !!??? wat?
this is like saying "why do we own fire extinguishers when we employ firefighters"
Also note: there are no "precautions" available for rape or other criminal acts, so that whole point is questionable...the rest of your post was a little "out there" IMHO
Truck Captain Stumpy said:uhhhmmmmm..... !!??? wat?
Let's clearly separate the two issues that tali89 is attempting to conflate here. And let's drop the general in favour of the particular, since that is where this bee in his bonnet started.You (and a number of other outraged individuals on this thread) have argued that urging a woman to have an abortion is anti-choice. I want someone, anyone, to demonstrate to me how arguing in favor of a particular action reduces the choices available to the audience.
Let's revisit once more the meaning of the verb "to urge".
dictionary.com says:
Since we are talking about abortion here, we note that the term "pro-choice" has a specific meaning in this particular context. In the context of abortion, "pro-choice" means that a woman who is pregnant has a free choice to decide whether to have an abortion or not. "Anti-choice" in the context of the current discussion therefore would mean that the women does not have a free choice. That could be because the right to choose is taken away from her (e.g. by law) or because she is pressured in one way or another to make a choice one way or the other. Most often, the pressure comes from proponents of the so-called "pro-life" position, who try to exert social pressure on women not to have abortions even where they are legal.
Now, the father in the given example is earnestly or persistently trying to persuade his daughter to have an abortion. Is he exerting a social pressure on his daughter or not? Well, it depends on the relationship. Hypothetically speaking, it could be that, in this particular case, the daughter is largely estranged from the father and gives his opinions little or no weight. In that case, whatever he says is unlikely to sway her decision and she may shrug off his earnest and persistent attempts at persuasion.
However, we are told that this daughter has a good relationship with her father, and so has taken time to sit down with her father and listen to his persistent attempts to persuade her to have an abortion. Therefore, unless there is good reason to assume otherwise (which there isn't, as far as we know), it seems that this father is in a position of some influence over his daughter emotionally or in terms of power imbalance or in some other social sense. Thus, the daughter is likely, as a result of the father's persistent entreaties, to feel emotional and social pressure to comply with the father's wishes and to have the abortion. The practical outcome of this is that it reduces her freedom of choice, even if it does not reduce the number of choices available (which are, after all, only two).
The pro-choice position is that the daughter should have a free choice to decide what is best for her in this situation. If she is doing so under duress (emotion, social, implied threat, etc.), then her choice is no longer truly free. Thus we conclude that the father's urging is anti-choice.
I trust this puts an end to this particular debate.
On the other hand, it would be very rare for a "pro-choice" proponent to try to exert pressure on a woman to have an abortion because this goes against the whole idea of "pro-choice" as defined.
Hmm. I will urge my sons not to have sex before they are sure they want to be with someone for the long term. Doesn't mean I am anti-sex (or anti-choice about sex.)The pro-choice position is that the daughter should have a free choice to decide what is best for her in this situation. If she is doing so under duress (emotion, social, implied threat, etc.), then her choice is no longer truly free. Thus we conclude that the father's urging is anti-choice.
Billvon said:I will urge my sons not to have sex before they are sure they want to be with someone for the long term.
James RHowever, we are told that this daughter has a good relationship with her father, and so has taken time to sit down with her father and listen to his persistent attempts to persuade her to have an abortion. Therefore, unless there is good reason to assume otherwise (which there isn't, as far as we know), it seems that this father is in a position of some influence over his daughter emotionally or in terms of power imbalance or in some other social sense.
Very well said.The pro-choice position is that the daughter should have a free choice to decide what is best for her in this situation. If she is doing so under duress (emotion, social, implied threat, etc.), then her choice is no longer truly free. Thus we conclude that the father's urging is anti-choice.
i am not going to hold my breath... but it should be clear by now.I trust this puts an end to this particular debate.
milkweed
so, as the link you [ milkweed ] gave stated"Anti-choice" in the context of the current discussion therefore would mean that the women does not have a free choice. That could be because the right to choose is taken away from her (e.g. by law) or because she is pressured in one way or another to make a choice one way or the other.
that is what James stated, right?antichoice - [an-tee-chois, an-tahy-]
adjective
1. opposed to the concept that a pregnant woman has the right to choose abortion.
so a person says one thing and does another... this is simply hypocrisy on their part. not the issueSays you. Could be that people around you dont actually tell you what they think/really do in the privacy of these family issues
that was not implied or inferred by Cap either... it was said that Cap would "urge", not inform, for starters... [quoted below]Any grown woman who sits down with her father to discuss a situation such as this has a valued relationship with that parent and implys (by the simple fact grandpa is asked about this) that the input is important to her.
This then degenerated (and was piggybacked by Tali) into the argument about urging, forcing and the difference between having a choice and coercionIf my 23 year old daughter were to become pregnant, I would urge her to abort ...
1- yes, Cap gave indications of knowledgeCapracus has intimate knowledge of his childs life circumstance that I do not know. I dont understand how those who feel Cap is wrong havent realized there may be some underlying reason he would URGE his grown daughter that at this time in life its not in her long term best interest to become a parent.
personal assumption based upon no evidence.He has the insight on this particular example that none of us do. Ya know, Reality of the situation. Where those trying to present his position as wrong seem to be reading from a script written for a perfect world.
TiassaJust out of curiosity, will you follow them into the bedroom and continue your exhortations while they're stripping down to mount? How 'bout once they're already up and in?
And I am sure you believe that.personally, i was responding to a very specific point based upon the evidence i was given and that Cap (and Tali) provided.
Nope. Will you tell your sons you are just fine with them having unprotected sex at any age? (To avoid "following them into the bedroom" of course)Just out of curiosity, will you follow them into the bedroom and continue your exhortations while they're stripping down to mount?
it is not about beliefAnd I am sure you believe that.
and Cap didn't specifically leave his comment to me eitherPersonally, I never addressed you or your opinion on this thread to begin with.
Let me put it another way then.i am addressing something you specifically posted
THANKS
as i stated above:Let me put it another way then.
I am not interested in discussing this issue with you at all. The entire topic I mean. Thats why I havent addressed you in your previous posts. Nor have you addressed me in ample previous postings.
And this one was not directed at you.
so... what's your point?i am addressing something you specifically posted ... i didn't see a rule stating that it was required to be specifically addressed to opine about anything... nor is that in line with the whole reasoning behind a forum, especially a thread that is opened to the public to comment upon (or, as in this case, opened to forum members without discrimination or control of posting ability)
is there some rule that i should be aware of that states i can't post unless specifically addressed?