Here is another example of how to deal with republicans
By way of hours-long youtube videos for liberals?
The introduction is a feel-good non-specific essay that draws a false equivalence between Obama and Trump, (and not only overlooks but specifically dismisses the fundamental similarity of Trump and W in their upbringing and ego, btw).
He's making a bothsides argument, and bothsides arguments regarding the current Republican Party agenda and behavior are bullshit.
Hour long youtube videos. In this case a couple of liberals sit around and talk about how to deal with Republicans, and in particular how to listen to them with respect and not make them feel bad and reach out to them without making them reach out to you. The Trump voter hasn't been listening and refuses to listen now? Ok, we'll listen to them, we liberals - we'll "validate" them. That's the word Mark used. Then they will meet us and join with us in making things better.
We all wish them luck. Seriously. They're nice guys. They want everyone to be happy. Their hearts are in the right place. Liberals are like that.
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At one point the guest there says "the left were equally guilty of slinging shit". That's nonsense.
At another point he says that Trump's election might cause people to wake up, and result in healing "the divide", and be the best thing that ever happened to the US - which is typical liberal happy talk, of course, and we all forgive him, but lord that's not very alert. The disaster of Trump is going to be decades in the recovery, and is not going to teach his voters anything, ok? Such disasters never have, they never will. We're not half way out of W's hole, and this one looks to sink us deeper than W did.
We all hope, naturally, that enlightenment will descend upon the Republican Party and Trump voter when their world turns to shit - but it didn't, after W. It didn't, after Reagan. It didn't, after Nixon. And the smart money says that it won't, after Trump.
He says the election of Trump was a shock to him - that, imho, means he hasn't been listening to the actual left, or anybody like me: absolutely nobody in my crowd of idea exchange was shocked by the election of Trump. Nobody. This train has been coming down the track since 1980, and we've been trying to warn people about it our entire adult lives.
He actually says that "veterans are a big blind spot on the Left" - dude, the big heroes of the Left going into this mess, 1990 - 2000 and the launch of war (in my neighborhood: Paul Wellstone, Molly Ivins, all kinds of actual lefties, even centrist liberal folks like Mondale) were all the time talking about veterans. The farther to the left a national politician is, the more they will do for veterans, as a rule. Look at who's pushing the mental health and brain injury issue in the veterans from W's Folly. The Left has always been the direction to turn for veterans during and after the war - any war. The Right is into the machinery and weapons contracting. Reagan spent the money on Star Wars bs, not Vietnam veterans rehab - them, he was kicking off welfare and out of mental hospitals, and throwing into jail for drugs.
Like he says: We are all flawed, inadequately informed people. But the modern Republican Party's core voter is not equivalently flawed, uninformed, etc, to liberals such as David Rubin and Mark the guest. Not even close. More significantly, neither are any of the intellectual, or media, supporters of the Republican Party's power gain. Those folks have an agenda, and these guys aren't going to change it by "listening" and "validating".
These guys are going to get rolled, just like they got rolled the last time. Because they may have a good idea how to deal with nice people they meet and talk to, but they don't know how to deal with the modern Republican Party. Not a clue.