So, if he hits you, but says he wants to stay togather and work it out, that;s OK?
If he continually cheats on you and says he wants to stay together and work it out, that's OK?
Yes, I do have extraordinarily high standards.
There is a reason I went throught dozens of relationships and didn't settle down and get married until I was 35.
I didn't want to settle for anything less than I deserve, and I deserve at least as much as I am willing to put out.
I would never cheat on my wife, I don't care what's going on, I would NEVER cheat on my wife and I expect at least as much from her.
I personally think people's standards are far too low and they put up with far too much bullshit.
I treat my wife with the utmost respect and honor, and if I get less than that from her, she doesn't deserve me.
I'd rather be alone than settle for less than what I deserve.
In fact, before I met her, I was convinced that I was going to live the rest of my life alone, and I was fine with that.I think that's important.
If you can't be alone, than you will settle for less than you deserve ion order to NOT be alone.Untill you are ready, willing, able and satisfied with teh prospect of being alone, you shouldn't be married, in my opinion.