Hmm, I guess for me it would be lack of commitment to continue the relationship.
Thats why I said I would have liked to hear the boy's side of it. It could be something as simple as cold feet at the idea of a permanent commitment;
So if what she said was true and he has been doing all these things behind her back for weeks. If his excuse to her was, I don't know what I was thinking I just had cold feet, this would make everything ok? Or if he said, well we weren't even married yet?
A long term relationship like she had (6yrs) really makes no difference to me if they were married yet or not. Obviously they were living together and were planning a wedding. That is the same committent to me as if they were actually married. How you can say, what he didn't didn't totally break the TRUST line is beyond me.
It 'ACCIDENTLY' just happened it won't happen again, wouldn't fly with me!