Email password cracking
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Sciencelovah
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I sense a poll coming.
You also tell your kids that you don't trust them.
As a result, they feel less inclined to tell/share anything.
Also, they grow up with a background where trust is a nonissue as well as invasion of privacy.
Sciencelovah
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You should post that in the "psychic powers" thread.
where exactly?
Nah I cant make a poll, I am too confuse to formulate the options.
Whether it should be:
do you trust your partner (love one)?
- yes
- no
- no opinion
or
do you crack email passwd?
- yes
- no
- i wish i could
- when necessary
- always
- all wrong
If those are the signs of a cheating man, I'm screwed then...
You can reek of smoke, or perfume from a business meeting, luncheon or just hanging out in the smoking area for a couple of minutes.
As for the bold print, I don't even know where to begin on this one. If a couple isn't married and the phone bill is in his name only, BAD IDEA.
I'm on the internet chatting quite a bit anyway.
I also like how these lists serve as tips on how to cheat and not get caught.
Cheating in itself puzzles me. Like you said about Nietzsch the other day, I'm barely motivated enough to keep one girl, let alone try to juggle multiple ones. I just don't understand how some people can put forth the stiff effort to have an affair when they're in a relationship anyway.
I buy an outfit or two every two months or so anyway.
What's wrong with going out and buying a new cologne?
You can reek of smoke, or perfume from a business meeting, luncheon or just hanging out in the smoking area for a couple of minutes.
Depending on how she phrased the question, I'd get defensive even if I wasn't cheating...even if I hadn't even looked at any other woman.
I turn my cell phone off when I go to bed anyway. I also walk into another room to talk on the phone regardless of who's in the room. For one, if the conversation doesn't concern them, then they have no business hearing it; and two, I also don't want to drown out the room with my voice should the persons in the room be conversing or watching TV.
As for the bold print, I don't even know where to begin on this one. If a couple isn't married and the phone bill is in his name only, BAD IDEA.
Well, I work in IT supporting laptops so I have everything locked down on my own anyway. I would only become suspicious of any girl who pressed me to let her have carte blanche permissions on my PC. And no amount of persuasion is going to get her those permissions. If she wants to get on the internet, we can get her her own PC.
I'm on the internet chatting quite a bit anyway.
Considering I have a car payment, house payment and other bills, I'm always broke anyway.
I also like how these lists serve as tips on how to cheat and not get caught.
Cheating in itself puzzles me. Like you said about Nietzsch the other day, I'm barely motivated enough to keep one girl, let alone try to juggle multiple ones. I just don't understand how some people can put forth the stiff effort to have an affair when they're in a relationship anyway.
Does the VP allow you to keep your job if you sneak around and hack into his email to find out about the surprise inspection, and he/she finds out about it?
I don't follow my kids around the neighbourhood or search their knapsacks.
I trust them......until the day they give me GOOD reasons not to anymore. If that time comes then I would have no problem looking around their room. So if someday he comes in stoned, and tells me he just has something in his eye and he was rubbing them.......I should just say ohhhhhhhhh ok. His behaviour becomes abnormal and defensive.......I have no right to snoop in his room? Its my house right? I pay all the bills right? If there is a crack pipe under his mattress is that ok because I shouldn't be looking there because I am invading his privacy?
C'mon
My son shared with me that the girl put him on this site. He didn't have to.
He could have said nothing. I also told him I appreciated him telling me and not going behind my back with something he thought I might no approve of. My kids are open with me, even if it gets them in shit!
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Now see, children are an entirely different story. I agree with you 100% there Shorty. You are essentially responsible for their well being and their 'supervisor' if you will. You are not the boss of your spouse, cohabitant or g/f, b/f. You cannot apply the same rules/tactics on your s.o. that you can on your children, at least not w/o consequences if they find out. They have more means, ability, and independence to get up and leave your ass, than children do.
Oh..I just meant you should post your precognition in the psychic thread...not the poll..sorry for the confusing wording...just making a funny.
Shortys rules for men #1-10
This reminds of a sitcom, where the husband wants to surprise his wife with a night out on the town of dancing. So he secretly takes ballroom dancing lessions after work, to prepare for the big night.
What does his wife see? He's late from work everynight, has flimsy excuses for being late, smells of perfume because his dance instructor is female. She of course is convinced he's cheating, and according to shorty's law, he is. When in fact, he was just trying to surprise her and make her day. Ooops!
This reminds of a sitcom, where the husband wants to surprise his wife with a night out on the town of dancing. So he secretly takes ballroom dancing lessions after work, to prepare for the big night.
What does his wife see? He's late from work everynight, has flimsy excuses for being late, smells of perfume because his dance instructor is female. She of course is convinced he's cheating, and according to shorty's law, he is. When in fact, he was just trying to surprise her and make her day. Ooops!
Yes, and I don't trust them. This is honesty. But only if I get caught. That would be an example of dishonesty.
We're not known for sharing things in my family. Sort of a "get it done" kind of family philosophy. Sharing? That's for wives and guidance counsellors. I also feel obliged to mention that my five and two year olds came up with a game of "put big cardboard boxes on and crash into each other", which is not IMO indicative of great emotional depth, or even intellectual depth, in this bloodline.
Again; only if I get caught.
In all seriousness, I have to know what they're doing. Whether I bring it to the fore, of course, is another question. But it is my right - no, my responsibility - to decide what must be dealt with and when. Deciding what to act on is a question of timing and seriousness: it's fine if they get away with a few minor things - my folks knew I'd been drinking beer when I was sixteen, but let it slide. Why? Because, as the old man put it "you have to feel that you're getting away with something". It's good for kids to have a little something they get away with, I think. Dampens the pressure. It's not good for it to consume their lives, and there are far too many addictive dangers which human beings are not equipped to deal with out there to take the chance.
I agree with everything you are saying.
Wait till they flatten the box down and pretend its
a snowboard and slide down the staircase lol
and SAM so you wouldn't invade your kids privacy even if you feel
they might be in danger?
( unless you are a parent.....you really have no idea what you would do.)
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I don't even know where to begin with this.
A home is about who pays the bills? Relationships are about using your power to control the other person?
Wow; everyday I get more proof how lucky I was in my parents; they never considered me answerable to their rules in exchange for paying my way.
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I may not be a parent, but I have been a child.
Frankly why not invest all that energy into teaching your child good judgment? Preferably by example?
I don't even know where to begin with this.
A home is about who pays the bills? Relationships are about using your power to control the other person?
Wow; everyday I get more proof how lucky I was in my parents; they never considered me a tenant answerable to their rules.
So you didn't have rules?
Its not about power. Its about teaching them how to become responsible adults. So far so good. I am told constantly by people, teachers, etc how well behaved my kids are. When they are teenagers they will have to follow rules, if they live in my house. ( they must follow rules now they are 6 and 11) Should they just run wild? Do whatever they want?
I think its a parents responsibilty to keep their kids on track. If you do not monitor what they are doing, or ask them questions how do you know what the hell they are doing when they leave the house. Should we not know that either? They deserve their privacy but if they start going down the wrong path....and I suspect drugs or something......I will snoop around.
You still didn't answer the question; If you suspected your child lets say 14- 15 yrs old was in danger.....or on some path to destruction you wouldn't
snoop around?
You can teach them by example.....I teach them manners, to be respectful, I don't drink or smoke.......
swear around them ( once in a blue moon something slips out) I teach them right from wrong.
Lots of GOOD kids get sucked into doing things "peer pressure" and its your job as a parent to keep your eyes open and watch for potential problems.
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Actually we weren't brought up like that.
There were no closed doors, no locks, no separate stuff or rooms. We spent most of our time together in one living room, went out together often and talked a lot to each other. Of course, we kept stuff from our parents, but it was understood that it was probably a boyfriend, a love letter or some such.
This entire cops and robbers concept is an alien one. No one was 'watching' anyone. None of us smoked, drank, did drugs or slept around; we were quite the nuns actually (even my brother). As we grew up, we expanded our interests, wore revealing clothes, partied late, drank and danced, but we were always considerate of the fact that the parents were home and would worry if we were too late or some such. Not to say it was all smooth sailing. But not any real waves either. Bith my parents were pretty liberal and gave us a lot of independence and responsibility from a young age. We were accountable for ourselves, not to them.
We were rather sheltered, in the sense that we could never understand why other people did self destructive things. I still don't. I see people hurtling downhill (in their lives, relationships) at full speed and I haven't the faintest idea why.:shrug:
We were always brought up to be there for each other, in whatever way. It left us a bit vulnerable to exploitation, but not because of naivety, mostly out of pity.
As for peer pressure, we are all independent thinkers. We make the rules, we decide how we will behave and none of us have ever been sucked into something because other people thought it cool (not even my very fashion conscious sister)
In a way I guess, being brought up like this made us pretty strong, but also made us very self centered. We're always right, even when all four of us are thinking in four different directions!
And yeah, we pretty much ran wild, but in a healthy way. No rules. Dad was a bit tight fisted and conservative, but Mom pretty much made up the balance.
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Ah well you're not using lateral thinking, Stryder.
If you're patiently awaiting an important call or you need some plumbing done urgently but the guys hasn't called on time then the most failsafe solution is to run a nice hot bath (bubbles for you) and then get yourself nice n comfy..
THEN
the phone will ring
and the plumber/roofer/painter//shall arrive.... toot sweet!
...or better still share a bath with SAM.
Its question of degree.
At least you're erring on the side of caution in an age where lots of people couldn't care less where their kids are - so respect for that.
There has to be some balance though..children (and partners) need some leeway and freedom and having people leafing through their private dairy isn't going to aid trust is it because you'd be betraying 'their trust'.
I can understand why you don't smoke or swear in front of the children...but whats so bad about drinking a few glasses of Wine? In France and most elsewhere in Europe they postively encourage their kids to drink moderately from a very early age?
I don't have a problem with them seeing someone drinking or smoking. I just personally don't drink or smoke.
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