gamelord:
True story, I was molested by a guy for a long time, finally he stockholmed me to fall in love with him. And then I admitted my feelings to him, that I was in love with him, and then suddenly he changed his mind and wanted nothing to do with me. And that is what I mean by how women molest, but only use it as some narcissistic supply method.
What has some
guy's behaviour got to do with women? It's not women's fault that the guy dumped you.
Since I am arguing with a naive child and not a practical adult, in your limited view of thinking maybe.
Do you think you're having an argument with me?
First I must ask you, if a man goes to a strip bar, and a hot stripper puts her legs around him, and he shyly says "No... I can't" and she forces herself on him, and he falls in love and lets her have her way with him, does society generally consider that to be real rape or just a form or ravishing.
Go back to basics. What is rape? Rape is sex without consent. When he "lets her have her way with him", that's consent, right, because, as you say, he has fallen in love with her. Strippers do not typically force themselves on clients. For a start, it's their job, and secondly, it's their job.
You know why society takes rape seriously, is when its a girl who is clearly disgusted by the man who raped her.
Society takes rape seriously because it is serious. It is an unlawful, forceful, exertion of dominance and power over somebody who is not consenting, and moreover it is a deeply invasive and intimate act due to its sexual nature. Rape often has ongoing effects on the victim long after the event.
I find your attitude to rape deeply disturbing.
And the fact is that girls are simply disgusted by most men.
I think that is just an excuse you make in order to justify your misogyny.
It is evidence. Because if that man had more female attention he probably wouldnt have become a rapist.
My patience with you is wearing very thin now.
It is not women's fault that some men choose to rape. It is not her fault because of what she wore. It is not her fault because of the way she looks at men. It it not her fault because she was drunk. It is not her fault because she had sex with the man before, or she had sex with other men before. When a man chooses to rape, the blame lies entirely with him.
I think your making excuses for rapists is disgusting. I should also note that this has not escaped the notice of our moderator team, either.
Second, why is it that females are hardly ever accused of rape?
Because the vast majority of rapes are committed by men.
Because most of them dont have a need to have sex with men.
Any more than men have a need to have sex.
They do not have a need, because they are not sexually attracted to most men.
That doesn't get any truer, no matter how many times you say it.
And because when they do force themselves on a man, most men dont complain.
If the man enjoys it, then he is obviously consenting and rape is a non-starter.
You need to work out the difference between accepting an unexpected offer of sex and gritting your teeth while somebody forces themselves on you, while you're terrified of being hurt even more and you're wishing it would just end.
When a man forces himself on a woman, it is rape, because women are disgusted by men.
No, it is rape because a man is
forcing a woman to participate in an act of sexual penetration that
she did not consent to.
I don't want to hear from you again that women are responsible for being raped.
If what you say is true though, then women would naturally evolve to not be sexually attracted to men. Otherwise they would be impregnating themselves too often.
Women still want* to pass on their genes to the next generation, just like men. That's a biological urge instilled in all of us by evolution. It would make no evolutionary sense for women not to be sexually attracted to men, which is one reason why your claim that most women are disgusted by men is ludicrous (if the observational evidence alone is not enough to persuade).
Think about what would happen. Take two groups of human beings, A and B. In group A, the women are attracted to men. In group B, the women are not attracted to men. Results: the people in group A have lots of children, while group B have none, except possibly those produced as a result of rape. Either way, group A will outbreed group B, and there will be more children of group A than B, on average. Fast forward a few generations, and group B will die out, while group A will thrive.
Obviously, current human society must be more representative of a group A-type society than a group B one. You might argue that for some unknown reason, in just the last generation or two, women have, on average suddenly changed so that they are no longer attracted to men, but there's absolutely zero evidence that has happened, or any plausible reason why it would have happened.
So, once again, I tell you that women are attracted to men (mostly), but they tend to be pickier about who they have sex with than men are (on average). Apart from any social factors, there are the strongest possible evolutionary reasons why this should be the case.
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* Caveat: in evolutionary terms, it's really the genes that are doing this "wanting", not the individuals.