I won't say you should do these things, trashing his stuff is what some women would do right now. Some. Of course, I would never suggest you do that. That would be really mean. Like if you accidentally tossed his computer out a window, . Or maybe his TV fell over on something. That would be wrong. You know?
I hate to be the one to break it to you sonicgirl but your boyfriend is cheating on you.this is really harsh!Ive been with him for 6 years, I know him well, I know when things are not quite right. When you know someone really really well, you notice things that may seem small but they are significant, slight behaviour changes that are weird
Like he now always has his mobile phone off when its not glues to him. When he is in shower, phone goes off, when he goes to bed, phone goes off
he used to just leave it laying about all over the place, but not anymore
so why the change??
Whoops, sorry didn't get to the end of the thread.OMFG its not good its not good at all I installed keylogger and left him alone with PC yesterday & he used it.
That's another possible thing that one, uh, shouldn't do.
Shorty, being female, probably has a host of other ideas about what one shouldn't do to a cheater; of course, I've always felt that close association really breeds a more complete understanding of the soft, sensitive spots in another person's life. The kind of thing that would really make someone crumple if dealt a blow there. Of course, time is pressing, I imagine. One does what one can.
I'll leave you to your work. Take it easy.
What was worse her snooping and saving the rest of her life from a fuking mess...........or What he has been doing listed above??? hmmmmmmm
Hmmmmmmmm so guys......in this thread who called this girl a paranoid freak.....SAM!!!
Still think she should have let it go, taken his word and carried on with the Wedding?
Well Sonic, like I said sometimes your intuition is dead on. Its terrible that you found this out....the only good thing is that you found out what an asshole he is now, before you wasted your life. Sorry this had to happen though it really SUCKS. Just try and move on, the best you can.
To all those who called you a nutcase, paranoid freak etc......Its apology time I think.:bugeye:
Or do all you guys who went on about what a crime snooping was, still have an argument here?
What was worse her snooping and saving the rest of her life from a fuking mess...........or What he has been doing listed above??? hmmmmmmm
So GeoffP we were right to think it suspicious and check it out huh![]()
Good job she found out? Yes, however if her relationship with him was in that sort of paranoid framework, she should of kicked him to the curb straight away.
I think he would be lucky to get away from you. You sound like a paranoid freak. :crazy:
SPEAKING OF OTHERS giving this girl bad advice, this is what you said to her!
Oh just wait till one of these days "IF" you find yourself in that position SAM, I doubt you will be as level headed as you are preaching here.