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<< You can teach them by example.....I teach them manners, to be respectful, I don't drink or smoke.......
swear around them ( once in a blue moon something slips out) I teach them right from wrong. >>

Well thats slightly disingenuous then because you imply that unlike others "you do not drink or smoke AROUND THEM"..thus suggesting that you do drink and smoke elsewhere.

Its a bit like patting yourself on the back for never swearing and then adding the rider - oh btw. I'm a Mute.

;-)
 
Hello again everyone
I have given up on the idea of password cracking as I have not had any luck finding a company I trust to do it. These firms dont exactly get reviewed in 'PC Weekly' lol... I dont know who is good & who isnt so I dont want to risk it.
So Im going to install a key logger at home & hope that he uses it. Maybe next weekend when hes here, Ill just leave the browser open & go round to the shops or something.
I asked him about his phone again the other day, I said it seems odd to switch it off when in the shower etc, and he just said he wouldnt be able to answer it anyway when in shower so may as well switch it off. Hmmm this doesnt make me feel any better. I actually switched it back on when he was in bathroom yesterday & hes PIN PROTECTED it, which hes never done before! :confused:
I am still not happy or convinced that everything is cool, and I feel a 'vibe' that something isnt right. I cant put my finger on it but I just know
I am so scared, I feel sick sometimes when Im laying in bed, I feel so nervous and edgy, its like a butterflies in stomach feeling before a job interview or something. I know that this is not created by me, there is something I am subconsciously picking up which is making me insecure. I just dont know what it is :(
Anyway, have to get off here as hes around the house, lol, will update soon
 
hmm I can't say I blame you.

Yes, I would snoop on him and if he suggests that you don't trust him then you should ask him why he doesn't trust you.

As you're engaged to be Married I'd hesitate to suggest anything drastic but no, I don't think you are at all paranoid. Anyone with any sense would do exactly the same but I can't say it bodes well for a happy marriage.

Sorry.:shrug:
 
Best of luck, sonic. Sounds like you're going the right way about this; it sounds very suspicious indeed. Mind, make sure you delete the history for sciforums: he might pick up on it if he tries to delete his own histories on your machine.

I'm sorry it all sounds like this, but sometimes you do what you have to. Once all else has failed, direct confrontation coupled with objective assessment is your next step. If he's not trustworthy, it's not your fault the wedding will be called off; it will be to his shame and his family's, not yours. Stay calm, don't worry and don't beat yourself up, whatever you do.
 
shorty_37 said:
So you didn't have rules?

Its not about power. Its about teaching them how to become responsible adults. So far so good. I am told constantly by people, teachers, etc how well behaved my kids are. When they are teenagers they will have to follow rules, if they live in my house. ( they must follow rules now they are 6 and 11) Should they just run wild? Do whatever they want?

I think its a parents responsibilty to keep their kids on track. If you do not monitor what they are doing, or ask them questions how do you know what the hell they are doing when they leave the house. Should we not know that either? They deserve their privacy but if they start going down the wrong path....and I suspect drugs or something......I will snoop around.

You still didn't answer the question; If you suspected your child lets say 14- 15 yrs old was in danger.....or on some path to destruction you wouldn't
snoop around?

You can teach them by example.....I teach them manners, to be respectful, I don't drink or smoke.......
swear around them ( once in a blue moon something slips out) I teach them right from wrong.

Lots of GOOD kids get sucked into doing things "peer pressure" and its your job as a parent to keep your eyes open and watch for potential problems.
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So you'll snoop, violate privacy and trust, because basically if they don't know you've done it then it won't hurt them.
So how comes if what they don't tell you won't hurt you, that's such a problem?
What if they find out, is this really the example you want to set? It's ok to go behind someone's back and invade privacy if you feel you have an excuse?(bear in mind they'll make they're own excuses in later life).
It's your choice if the example you want to set is this, but don't expect things to turn out wonderfully. The only reason I have the decency and respect not to do such a thing is because my parents set a good example. Shame about everyone else though.
You're going to have so much fun with teens shorty; Trying to tell them not to do the things you do/have done, and expecting them to listen.
 
I am still not happy or convinced that everything is cool, and I feel a 'vibe' that something isnt right. I cant put my finger on it but I just know
I am so scared, I feel sick sometimes when Im laying in bed, I feel so nervous and edgy, its like a butterflies in stomach feeling before a job interview or something. I know that this is not created by me, there is something I am subconsciously picking up which is making me insecure. I just dont know what it is
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Go to him right now and repeat these exact words.

You should be nothing but honest with him about what you are feeling. He loves you, doesn't he? He is going to marry you! He should care about making you feel secure, but he can't do that unless he knows exactly what you are feeling!

Welcome to an adult relationship!
 
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<< You can teach them by example.....I teach them manners, to be respectful, I don't drink or smoke.......
swear around them ( once in a blue moon something slips out) I teach them right from wrong. >>

Well thats slightly disingenuous then because you imply that unlike others "you do not drink or smoke AROUND THEM"..thus suggesting that you do drink and smoke elsewhere.

Its a bit like patting yourself on the back for never swearing and then adding the rider - oh btw. I'm a Mute.

;-)
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Like i said, you might have missed it. I don't care if they see others drinking and smoking. I don't smoke or drink myself. So I am not doing it anywhere.
 
Find his secret answers to his secret questions he has set for his email account and then reset his password.

All in all, you should just ask him to show his inbox.
 
shorty_37 said:
Like i said, you might have missed it. I don't care if they see others drinking and smoking. I don't smoke or drink myself. So I am not doing it anywhere.
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True.

If you don't drink or smoke the kids won't see you drinking and smoking.


:confused:

..are all americans this odd?
 
ssh = secure shell...it's just a terminal to execute remote commands on remote comps (less fancy version of remote desktop etc)
 
OMFG its not good its not good at all I installed keylogger and left him alone with PC yesterday & he used it. I arranged for my best friend to call me with an 'emergency' so I went to meet her & left him at home for 3 hours. I just now got the opportunity to check the keylogger and found out

1) Email from ex complete with NAKED PIC & comment 'I thought this would be a nice reminder of the other day'
2) Hes f**king joined 'illicitencounters.com' which is a site for married people looking for 'fun'
3) MSN chat with ex, both sides of conversation, he bunked work the other day to meet her for sex, detailed graphic chat about it, she said stuff about how he was too young to marry & what would he do when he could only sleep with 1 person for the rest of his life, and he said he loved me but he couldnt deal with never having the thrill of seeing someone naked for the first time ever again so he would prob have 'flings' and that way I wouldnt get hurt

OMG WHEN I READ IT I WENT TO THE BATHROOM AND THREW UP I FEEL SO SICK I CANT THINK STRAIGHT

I SWEAR IM GOING TO KILL HIM, HES OUT AT THE MOMENT, WENT TO MEET HIS FRIEND TO DO WORK ON HIS CAR. APPARENTLY. WHATEVER I BET HES AT THAT BIATCHES HOUSE RIGHT NOW IT MAKES ME SICK TO THINK OF THEM TOGETHER HOW COULD HE DO THIS

IM PACKING MY STUFF RIGHT NOW I CANT BELIEV IT WHAT A OMG I CANT EVEN SAY WHAT I THINK OF HIM RIGHT NOW :mad::mad::mad::
 
Hmmmmmmmm so guys......in this thread who called this girl a paranoid freak.....SAM!!!
Still think she should have let it go, taken his word and carried on with the Wedding?

Well Sonic, like I said sometimes your intuition is dead on. Its terrible that you found this out....the only good thing is that you found out what an asshole he is now, before you wasted your life. Sorry this had to happen though it really SUCKS. Just try and move on, the best you can.

To all those who called you a nutcase, paranoid freak etc......Its apology time I think.:bugeye:
Or do all you guys who went on about what a crime snooping was, still have an argument here?
What was worse her snooping and saving the rest of her life from a fuking mess...........or What he has been doing listed above??? hmmmmmmm

So GeoffP we were right to think it suspicious and check it out huh;)
 
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Yep. Not happy with what she found though. :( That's people for you. Fuck.

Sonic, dump him and DO NOT LOOK BACK. Not worth your time and life is short, short short. Lemme say this: I'm damned, damned sorry that was the case, sonic. But now you know. Now you know. Relax, take a breath, boot his ass and don't listen to any excuses. Done and over.

I won't say you should do these things, but posting a pic of him or trashing his stuff is what some women would do right now. Some. Of course, I would never suggest you do that. That would be really mean. Like if you accidentally tossed his computer out a window, or scratched his car up with "CHEATER" in huge letters. Or maybe his TV fell over on something. That would be wrong. You know?

Or a little relationship punishment might be what some women would do right now. You know the kind of thing I mean: flings, strip bars, flirting with strange men right in front of him and maybe leaving the bar with them, whatever. Not that I'm saying you should do those things. I just think karmic imbalances need to be addressed. You know?

Best of luck, sonic - look....don't take it too hard (statistically, most people are assholes, it's a fact). Hey, look: I know it might be a shit reminder, but stick around the forums if you want; you're always welcome. Seriously. At least write back in and tell us all you're ok, ok? And don't do anything...you know, silly. Unless you maybe knock his computer out the window or something. These kind of things happen.

Take it easy, and don't be too hard on yourself. Cut loose and go.

Best, Geoff
 
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