You be the judge - sexual assault?

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  1. billvon Valued Senior Member

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    I agree he should be arrested (and convicted if the evidence supports it) - but not because it is "a sign of a regressive state." Because he harmed someone - and violated a law - for profit.
     
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  3. sculptor Valued Senior Member

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    Is male circumcision genital mutilation?
     
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  5. Jeeves Valued Senior Member

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    Yes.
    You, as an adult, have a right to whatever kind of mutilation you choose to undergo, of course. Infant circumcision has been outlawed in several countries - not without a huge kerfuffle over "religious freedom" - and discussed in many others. Almost nobody dares to tell their Jewish population how barbaric their customs are (kosher slaughter, too) while calling Africans regressive is common.
     
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  7. iceaura Valued Senior Member

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    The mutilation of women is often done at a fairly advanced age - just before onset of puberty, say. And it is often voluntary, in a sense. That does not make it less severe.

    The mutilation of infant boys is comparatively minor, done for completely different reasons and with much less significant harmful effects - despite being done without consent, etc, the degree of harm does make a difference.

    Using the same word - "circumcision" - for such significantly different mutilations, misleads. If the intent is to attach greater significance to male mutilation, note that it traditionally has had the opposite effect.
     
  8. exchemist Valued Senior Member

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    Yes, if not done for medical reasons, I would say so. Though it generally does not seem to have adverse long terms effects.
     
  9. sideshowbob Sorry, wrong number. Valued Senior Member

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    I see it as similar to fictional depictions of murder, torture, etc. If no actors were harmed in the production, we don't consider the producers criminals. So why do we treat people differently if the fictional acts depict children but don't harm children?
     
  10. sideshowbob Sorry, wrong number. Valued Senior Member

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    And there's no fine line between looking and peeping.
     
  11. billvon Valued Senior Member

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    Because we have a higher standard when it comes to protection of children vs adults.
     
  12. sideshowbob Sorry, wrong number. Valued Senior Member

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    It doesn't really matter how much of a threat he thinks he is. As others have pointed out, his thoughts don't constitute a crime; only his actions do.
     
  13. Bells Staff Member

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    I thought I was being kind and polite for the most part...
    I did not actually accuse him of being a troll. My comment was that it may have been preferable if he was a troll. And his arguments in this thread have been dangerously rank.

    There are inherent dangers to the approaches he has taken. To the one, it would make a large portion of rapes no longer crimes. Such as raping a woman who is unconscious, as a prime example. Or even sexually molesting babies and children.. The notion of whether it really is a crime if the victim does not know, or arguing lack of threat or harm.. I guess there is a reason as to why he has avoided the specifics of what he is arguing or questioning.

    He was quite clear from the get go.

    Which is why the line of questioning went towards, as you put it, the rather unpleasant examples.

    A lot of victims of sexual assault, rape, sexual violence or even domestic violence, do not realise that they have been assaulted. In the examples I cited above, children who went to see a doctor and were molested, some repeatedly, had no idea they were being molested. Tell me, do you think a doctor fingering the vagina of a 3 month old baby is committing a crime if the baby is not aware of what is happening, if there is no threat or physical harm to the child?

    Because if we go to the crux of what sideshowbob is arguing, that is what he is questioning.

    There is a reason why sex offenders, particularly child sex offenders demand and push for no threat or harm = no crime. Now, I am not saying that sideshowbob is a sex offender or a paedophile. What I am trying to point out is the inherent dangers of what he is questioning and suggesting.

    It's actually not that tough at all.

    Particularly for issues of consent. And particularly intent. Look at what he was responding to:

    Do you still think it is a "tough one"?

    Now, let's imagine where this would not be a crime for the person who took the photo. They take photos of his friends children in various stages of undress, considered normal for normal people who don't get their jollies looking at children, and he posts them on his facebook or instagram feed and forgets to make them private or for family/friends only. And a paedophile copies the photos and disseminates them on the dark web to a ring of paedophiles.

    Do you understand now?

    Again, consent, privacy, etc. Also factors of breach of copyright can come into play in such instances.

    But think of it this way, for the context of this discussion.. Is there a risk to the wearer of the shoe in the photo or others who wear the same shoe?

    You know, in the same way that a paedophile sees a photo of a child in stages of undress and tries to seek out that child or another child to rape them, for example?

    Do you want to compare people to shoes?

    Hmm..
     
  14. sideshowbob Sorry, wrong number. Valued Senior Member

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    That's what I thought. So if the "victim" doesn't know anything happened, he/she can not be apprehensive of imminent harm. Hence, no assault, no crime.

    That's all I'm saying.

    Or take the example of homosexuality. It was deemed "wrong" at one time. It was a crime, even though there was no victim and no harm. That's why I'm saying that we should be defining crimes more in reference to harm.

    No, that is not clear. If I don't miss the nickel, if I don't even notice that it's missing, it is not a real crime, even though the law might technically regard it as such.
     
  15. sideshowbob Sorry, wrong number. Valued Senior Member

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    The example to which I was replying, message #107, specified, "Neither the children nor the parents have any knowledge of this, and it never gets back to them at any future stage." That is the situation to which I was replying. In your modified scenario I would say that it was a crime.

    Unauthorized use of the photographs is a separate issue, just like driving to the photo shoot under the influence of alcohol would be a separate issue.
     
  16. sideshowbob Sorry, wrong number. Valued Senior Member

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    As I have said repeatedly, I am talking about cases where the "victim" doesn't know anything happened. Try a relevant example.

    Not "untoward". I'm talking about people who never found out that anything happened.

    Again, you're talking about a cases in which the perpetrator's actions were known. Try a relevant example.

    That's what I'm hoping people will think about instead of just having a knee-jerk reaction.

    That's what I'm hoping people will think about instead of just having a knee-jerk reaction. Is it really and assault? Or is the real harm caused to them in the future caused by people telling them they were victims?

    I'm not particularly happy with the answer but it's the honest answer to that question. So far, your objections have been to a question that I wasn't asked and didn't answer.
     
  17. sideshowbob Sorry, wrong number. Valued Senior Member

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    How does criminalizing a drawing or a story protect anybody?
     
  18. sideshowbob Sorry, wrong number. Valued Senior Member

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    Maybe questioning should be a crime.
     
  19. exchemist Valued Senior Member

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    Having thought about this some more I think the key issues are loss of privacy, which is a different kind of loss from loss of property or reputation but a loss nonetheless, and in the case of children the further issue of potentially encouraging a market in something that leads to child abuse. This latter principle is less obvious that the privacy aspect, but is recognised in other fields. For example the prohibition on trade in ivory is to stop hunters from seeing a market in illegal elephant poaching.

    It seems to me your original idea that a crime has to cause harm is definitely too narrow on its own. The concepts of loss, whether of tangible property, or of intangibles such as intellectual property, reputation or privacy; and of danger, i.e. risk of causing harm, whether to an individual or a class of persons (e.g. children at risk of abuse or elephants), also form part of our conception of criminal acts, I think.

    And there is more still, for instance you can get arrested for showing your arse at somebody in public. That's not any of the above but it is regarded as offending public decency, i.e. it is behaviour that is quite likely to annoy or upset people.

    The list gets longer, evidently......
     
  20. sideshowbob Sorry, wrong number. Valued Senior Member

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    In the case of fiction or drawings, there is no specific person who has any privacy to lose.

    In the case of pornography in general, does it promote sexual abuse in general? Or does it provide an outlet for some that might prevent them from acting out against a real person? or both?

    I noticed that when you mentioned it to Bells. I have been thinking of "harm" in those broader terms.

    Like two men kissing in public. Crime or no crime? Harm or no harm? You have to check the calendar.
     
  21. iceaura Valued Senior Member

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    It's a crime as long as the threat exists - at least.
    Threatening people with harm is a crime.
    It was included in your little scene - showing them to others, etc.
    Meanwhile, looking at them for arousal is unauthorized use.
    And taking them in the first place creates a threat.
     
  22. sideshowbob Sorry, wrong number. Valued Senior Member

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    Where is the threat in this example?
    They were take with the parents' permission. Have the parents commited crime?
     
  23. exchemist Valued Senior Member

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    There does seem to be some evidence that pornography can encourage some men to objectify women in real life, I think. At least I think I have read as much, but I don't have a reference to hand.

    Re public decency yes of course that is a movable feast, in that public attitudes change. A generation ago a dental floss bikini bottom, or bathing topless, would get someone into trouble in a lot of places, but now it seems OK. So much is context: something OK on the beach would cause a stir on the London Underground.
     
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