Of course not. How about you?
you injected "shame" into your reply to me asserting there was some form of implied shame.
there clearly was not, thus i am asking why you assign shame to the situation as you must be thinking about something.
thus i ask
i am curious about your interpretation of where "shame" fits in the situation
i think people having long term OR short term relationships that mean a lot to them are good.
be they same sex or opposite sex or truples or what ever they are consenting adults consenting in.
"shame" implies subjective bias for imposed moral judgement.
what are you applying moraljudgement to, to assert "shame" in regard to ?
im quite aware your dancing around something but you seem to want to imply something rather than state it.
you dont have to. but your making a point using such a moral judgement term.
Not certain what your aiming at, but okay.
being happy for others who are happy is what i am refering to.
This is not a very common personal atribute so some may not be familair with it.
envy, greed, biggotry etc etc
devoid ofthese things to be able to be happy that someone else has found happiness.
Such as a man and a woman who spend a lifetime together?
man/woman no difference to a couple.
though im not hung up on defining people as being inadequate because they are single.
if someone is happy being single then i am happy for them also.
the "life time" thing is a little aired in implied dogma as no one spends their entire life time together, THUS there is implied subjective terms of reference which are culturalised or bias toward concepts of what "life time" mean.
i have met only a very small handful of gay men gay women and hetro couples who have been together for 30 years plus and are happy together being together.
30 years is not a life time, and i do not see that subjectively undermining, by implied terms, someone should
not be happy to be with someone for less than 30 years.