Enigma'07 said:
I don't get why black people go flying off the wall if a white person calles them a nigger, but if a fellow black person calls them that it's no big deal. (extreme confusion)
You have the wroing impression which is socially constructed. It is a matter of
how one says nigger, Say the word with an insulting connotation and you get your balls chewed off, The word uttered with a poetic tone of caring, understanding and humor and you've joined the Harlem Club. By merely asking the question that you brought up you cannot hide from your perturbed state of mind. You "can't" say this or that but 'they' can say this and that is bullshit and you should bnow this from experience. By your agreeing with the racist dogma as a fact of life, it isn't, you invite punishment or admonishment and the prettiest Black chicks go home with someone else.
Don't you know hpw to communicate with another person? Do you start telling sexist jokes when first introduced to a woman? Can you engage in a coversation with a woman for 5-6 hours without evolving into an irrestible urge to hit on her?
Woman have been observed to operate in some very strange modes. One that I appreciate and is indellibly etched in a quasi-country western song: "She's already made up her mind". This is sung by Pety WOman's ex husband. If you can see the significance of this statement, it is a truth, once a man has preened and spread his feathers the woman has made a decision. There is no need to maintain the spread feathers as this is only an admission that you didn't get the messagei i.e.
. The 'man in error' continues along up to the instant when "it" happens, unless she gets disgusted or bored to death and changes her mind and goes hunting for more aware and intelligent game to bring down.
Geistkiesel
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Have yopu ever attended a social gathering that included Blacks? Sure you ahve as have all of us. It has been my observation that the fokloowingf is inecitable ibn varyonmg degrees of intensity. Whitey carefully refrains from makinmg any statement that includes he topic iod frace, witheras the main issue or a peripheral issue. Blacky, the Nigger,(s) caefully refrain form acting in any way that can be chracteriszewd as "Black", like they refrain from using the "moltherfucker" words. At some point Whitey is heard to mention, in effect, that they (they , wife/husband) like Blacks, at which time the Ni-----s all laugh, the prfessure is relieved and the party goes on. This is after, of course, thagt the B;ack couple does a little Steppin' Fetchet jig aboo.
I think that Blacks are the true plug, the restraining element to a more rapid attainment of racially graceful social interactions in this country. Yes, it is the Blacks who hold the key. My opnion is that when Blacks get their Steppin F. rountine out of the way at the earliest possible time instead of wainting until Whuitey has found a way to bring up racial issues delicatley, meaning round-a-bout, such that they, Whitey can project neither racist, nor apologetic -- Whitey really does like Blacks.
What I am saying is Blacks should accelerate the tempo, get the jive ass mother fucker routine introduced, laughed at as soon as [possible, do a simple SF shuffle and the momentum begins to noticable acclerate. This allow more time to P-A-R-T-Y. I put the pressure on the Black as they, racially speaking, are much less timid in the matter of introducing themselves, while Whitey needs a slow resonant transition period so' s their Whitey minds stay intact and unperturbed. as they shuffle along waiting for the best opportunity to show their racial purity.
When you reach a certain level of practiced training you will see that your racisim, learned and ingrained becomes a non-problem, but and very importantly the racism doesn't disappear, it become controlled, instead of the other way around.. As as example when I first saw
Mohammwed Ali on TV aftyer haviong him described as another loud mouthed mother-fucking Nigger, I had to agree with the Champ's reputation, as he proved to be all that hewas described, However, to me I wasn' t the leasrt bit insulted or abgered and in fact enjoyed then and to this dayenjoy seeing the Champ do hid thing. This was about the time of the vfamous Sonny Listion fight where Sonny was the odds on favorite endingv at 5-1 at fight time. I was taking all the bets I could get from firiends and family. I endured the snickers and synpathy for the monewy I was about to remove from my pocket. Bu, lo and behold Sunny didn'r answer th3e 5thj or 6gth bell and zI was slightly rich, cash wise.
Me and the Champ shared in a unique international perspective that was to beclome more popular with eash passing sunset. I doubt if my version will ever be told as Ali said it all. Regarding the escalating war in Vienam Alli was widelhy quoted as ""The Cong ain't my enemy".
Me too Champ, damn good work. You've done much more than pay y7ur dues for your share of breaths of air, much more than any Whitey I know. I am not aware of any public Whitey with an unambiguous and indellible sense of justice, sense and sould of right and wring, human sensitivity and understanding. Your intelligence Champ blurs most of the best of Whitey. Hell I may be the only white guy left who, even with you present, is the smartest person in the room. As you well know Champ, this is a very heavy burden to bear in one's life and is why I am so relieved when my relief shows up (usuaklly autimatuc wghen I 8infer he ckaim) and I am able to relax and enjoy.
I am certainly the more beautiful as you as an honest man would attest. We have no argument here Ali. This places me up there at the top of the beauty charts, but who cares about the lonliness of being the beautuiful one? Who would deny a man thopse things that take from the path but a bit of the lonliness? Certainly not me, as I've already flaunted my attributes to excess.
Pax Champ
Geistkiesel .
