Kind of reminscent of that joke about praying to have the wisdom to tell the difference between things one can change and cannot change, but also with the proviso that one has enough money so as to not to care either way.
You are right I owe it to myself to get that other scope.
The real damage of loss is reliving it rather than realising the loss is in the past and worrying about what you could of or should have done is irrelevant and only causes upset...so one must move on immediately.
However so many folk go over and over a loss or set back and seem to enjoy relating their misfortune to others ... anything for attention I expect.
hence a certain sort of status is awarded to fortitude, contingency plans etc.
Status? I look at folk trying to hold a position and often trying to be more than they are..pretenders. ..sorry excuses for a human.
I dont care for it..why bother ranking oneself...other folk can rank me above or below them I really dont care what they think of me as their opinion is irrelevant to my life... ...although I spend more time in the city than I like I still live as a hermit and so I have no interest in the ranking race most find themselves in...
I expect the social pressure to proclaim yourself as a believer in many places in the USA together with the fear of death and hell must make life rather miserable if you dare think about things.
I like thinking.
I expect having to pay 10% of ones income to a church must be horrible given one gets nothing in return...and of course I bet there are folk who would starve or borrow to pay their 10% church tax rather than lose "status".
You are into the god thing and I bet you pay 10% cause everyone else does ...
you know the first key to being well off? ... you pay yourself first..pay yourself 10% of whatever comes into your hands..before the rent or mortgage, before all bills and use only what is left for the many who want a slice...if you pay a church first you are a fool.
Not to pay yourself before all others means you are a slave, if you pay the church you are the victim of a con job.
I know all this is irrelevant but I feel like helping folk☺
Subsisting independent from society is something else entirely
Hardley subsisting...it is the ultimate...would you not enjoy the luxury of not sucking up to anyone?
You must have a boss or a bank of clients or customers that you suck up to...
To do what you want to do not what others expect you should do to fit their concept of the world is great...only having to please yourself is hardley subsisting..it is sucess.
Its not hard to be smarter than the ones you leave behind...and then you confront yourself and rid yourself of the crap put there by others and enjoy real freedom of thought and expression.
Take your 10% church tax and put it aside for your escape.
Learn to live without it and enjoy the cards you are dealt today and how you can manage the unmanagable.
Usually people say such things when they are unaware of the cultural/social biases they exemplify.
True I am surprised no one has come after me for being outspoken and no doubt they dont because I am too insignificant to worry about... And perhaps I am just crazy.. I certainly cant influence anyone or lead a revolution I am more dangerous to myself than anyone really.
If anxiety driven pole dancing hasn't changed any, its not clear to what you are pointing to as the improvement
I dont understand your pole dancing thing at all and I am surprised that I need to spell out what I mean.
Look we live in the most wonderful era humans have enjoyed, and for the very first time in history the average mug (person) can educate themselves upon any subject you can think upon...we have the net, and we have utube, we have wiki...to name a few of the treasures we already take for granted and these things enable even a mug like me to inform himself and work out that we have most of the answers to questions folk in the bronze age could not even understand could be asked...and yet we have this group of humans still placing credibility upon stuff born from opinion and superstition to the point they hold it over and above our accumulated knowledge.
There are still folk who think humans came from two individuals made by god simply because its in a book written thousands of years ago by folk uneducated and ignorant of facts that today a kindergarden kid knows.
The point I make is why would you go back to the bronze age for knowledge or guidance. .. it's crazy but crazy rules it seems.
Folk these days would not want a product made last year because it is behind the times but have no problem looking for explanation to a whole range of things in religions of the bronze age...you seem to see no problem in doing so which I see as your problem.
Maybe you are in a position of power and accept that having those you want to control brain washed as a good thing ... and I guess if I was to control huge numbers of humans religion would be a lazy way to achieve tight control.
I suppose the question is..do we have religion to keep the masses under control and train them up to accept whatever crap we put upon them.
I suppose in the USA you can have more people rally with a call to believers than a call to whites or blacks or school kids...a call to believers has 70% to 80% of folk coming to your call.
So I admit its a great tool to control populations...I guess it just annoys me that most humans are so gullible.
I like the utube show the Atheist Experience and I have been genuinely surprised just how many stupid folk call in...not only from USA but even one crazy fool from Australia...so they are everywhere.
Why do humans need to know the details of creation or a creator ... I dont care..I am here and know that I will never know the truth as to if there was a begining or not...I wont lay awake wondering about it either.
And these folk who get upset about the suggestion they are related to apes I just can not understand.
Why would you care why we are here or how we got here etc.
Why reach for a pack of lies rather than say "well I just dont know".
Anyways I wont be around much longer so I intend to concentrate on doing stuff rather than being here chatting about the world.
I must say its nice to have had a few chats with you and I hope your life goes well for you.
Alex