The God:
James R,
Having something in mind does not qualify as something which curves or bends.
You are making spacetime appear as something more than mathematical entity, can you please give a single citation which supports this.
I see this discussion as fairly pointless.
What would it mean to you for spacetime to be "more than a mathematical entity"? What would that look like, as opposed to spacetime being
merely a "mathematical entity"?
When we're talking about "spacetime", in the end we're referring to a scientific theory, just like when we talk about "gravity" or "electricity" or "photons of light". That is, those terms mean something specific when scientists use them.
On the other hand, non-scientists also use them, but generally is a more vague sense. They know that if they plug their toaster into the power point then it provides "electricity", but they don't necessarily know exactly what "electricity" is. In the same way, when most people talk about space and time, or "spacetime", they have a vague idea that space is what they move around in and time is what their watch says, but they don't necessarily have the kind of rigorous understanding that physicists have about those concepts.
So, if you ask me whether "spacetime" is "something more than a mathematical entity", then the answer seems obvious: there must be more to it than "just" maths, because most ordinary (non-scientist) people have something in mind other than maths when they talk about space and time. It is obvious to me, and therefore to try to debate the point is an obvious waste of time.
On the other hand, you seem very fixated on the issue of whether spacetime "really curves", like general relativity says it does. Non-scientist people may have some vague idea about spacetime curving, but they probably understand that less than they understand "electricity". Physicists, on the other hand, can put a mathematical scaffold around the term "spacetime curvature", so that it means something precise.
Spacetime curvature, as in general relativity, is a scientific model. Its aim is to allow us to make useful predictions about what we will observe in the world when we make certain measurements or observations. The success or failure of the concept of "spacetime curvature" then necessarily has to be judged by its predictive success or failure.
Asking whether spacetime
really curves is the same as asking whether gravity or electricity "really" exists. Does the theory match our experience? Yes, it does. So, what does that mean? It means we have a good scientific model of something that happens in the real world. And also, it means it can be convenient to talk
as if spacetime (whatever that is)
actually curves, even though we don't directly perceive that curvature with our senses (arguably).
So, for me it comes back to a shrug and a repeat of my question to you: why does it matter to you if it's "real" or "just a mathematical model"? What is the important difference for you? How do you even tell the difference?