Why by PM? After all, it's just you "venting". You are trying to convince people that I should take your argument seriously about why
you don't think what LG said to me constituted sexual harassment. Context and history, amazing things. After all, you have nothing to be ashamed of. You were simply "venting". And aren't you the one who demands openness?
No Balerion. My point was clear. What I said is that you are the last person I am going to allow to lecture me about what constitutes sexual harassment. Not because you sexually harassed me. I was merely an observer of your... "venting".. after someone linked me your posts - [
which were deleted because you were that bad] - my apologies for breaking the rule of linking another site and my apologies for the language you are about to read..
So the moral of this story, ladies and gentlemen, is that Bells will not be swayed by facts so long as she is pissed off at you. The truth doesn't matter when it comes from the mouth of someone she's upset with.
I mean certainly, I can sit here and allow someone who referred to me as an "ignorant cunt", "evil twat", "frigid bitch", "miserable cunt"... lecture me about how I was not sexually harassed by another person. But I think even you should be able to understand why I refuse to take your argument or opinion in this or any other issue seriously.
Oh, trust me, I understand why you refuse to take my argument seriously. You refuse to take it seriously because it absolutely destroys yours. This...what you're doing here...is just another attempt at showmanship. You want the sympathy of the audience because you can't support yourself through reasoned argument.
What made your venting even more cowardly is that you saw fit to use my real name in it. Even more disturbing is that this is what you are like when you are angry. What the hell dude? Obsess much? It's kind of sad really. And a bit sick.
Here's where context comes into play. First and foremost, I didn't say those things to you. I said them to people who had also dealt with your abuse. I was among like-minded people who had suffered at your hands, and I vented as anyone else would. The reason your name was used (first name, not last name) was because we had just had a dust-up because I had used your real name in a discussion between us here. You know, the same real name that you yourself have used here. In public. On the public forum. Then, because I made the mistake of disagreeing with you when you were in one of your rages, you decided that my use of your first name was some breach of national security, as if I had committed some irreconcilable crime. When, in reality, I had simply repeated a name you had used here yourself. And, as usual, James went to bat for you after your ensuing conniption, and I was pissed off about it. As I was pissed off about you comparing me to Anders Bering Breivik, the man who murdered 77 people, most of them children.
No, but
that was okay, right? And I had no absolutely no right to be upset with you on a personal level for your putrid behavior, right? You call it obsession, but it was one conversation with a couple of other people who oddly enough
felt similarly about you. Funny, that, how even in such a moment of release, I found people who completely agreed with my assessment.
Now, as to your complaints about the moderation on this site. I am not going to take your whining seriously either.
I don't expect you to. I was never appealing to
you in the first place. (Self-obsess much?) I'm appealing to the people who run this site, not the moral worms who besmirch it with their bully tactics and abuse of members. I'm specifically asking that you be removed from it, either in whole or at least as a moderator. I don't expect you to agree, and I certainly don't expect someone who is so blatantly full of shit to "take it seriously."
You have gone out of your way to insert yourself into an issue that does not concern you at all, you weren't even here when it happened and you weren't even party to that discussion. So much so that you tried to make it about you. It's not about you. It has nothing to do with you.
Here we go again with the "you weren't there" fallacy. Would you, for once in your life, please follow through on something and tell me why it matters that I wasn't there at the time? Could you do that?
As for your being offended that I called you a misogynist and what you felt was a typical blanket insult that one can apparently expect from the mods here.. "ignorant cunt", "evil twat", "frigid bitch", "miserable cunt" ... This is why I call you a misogynist.
LOL! Your lying appears pathological at this point. You called me a misogynist long before I ever uttered those words. I can't help but wonder what's misogynistic about them, though. Is "cunt" a term only misogynists use? Or is it, like "asshole," something of a gender-specific term for a certain kind of jerk?
In any case, it's not as if I could say those things to you directly. If I thought I could, I would have. You earned every word of it.
If you find that term insulting? Well, think of it as
me venting.
How creepy that you would actually smile at me...
To reiterate something to you. Your feelings are not important to me. Your feelings or belief that I was not sexually harassed mean absolutely nothing to me. Because as I said, you are the absolutely last person on this planet that I will ever allow to lecture me about what constitutes sexual harassment. Not because you sexually harassed me, but because you are a misogynistic hypocrite.
To be absolutely clear: I was never appealing to you. I was offering the facts of the matter. Your arguments are pure, raw emotion, which is why LG kept referring to your behavior as "hysterical." That is a spot-on description of you in most cases, I would say. You have only supported this by acting as if the written record of the events are immaterial, and without "being there" none of us could possibly know what actually happen. This suggests that your interpretation of the events are wholly emotional, and irrational. Because you got mad at him, you are justified in your abuse of power, and your abuse of him. You don't get to advance such a ludicrous argument without getting a dose of reality from me. Sorry, but that's just how it works. If your fragile ego can't handle it, then don't read my posts.
You obviously have an axe to grind and you are obviously a tad obsessed - so much so that you are appearing in various threads doing nothing more than complaining about Syne and James' choice in Syne as moderator.
Ah, so taking issue with moderator abuse, as well as the promotion of a homophobe to the moderator ranks, amounts to "obsession?" Interesting to note. I hope everyone following this keeps that in mind.
This has virtually been the gist your contribution to this site since your return. So be it. That is your choice. You declared yourself as "ghetto folk" and tried to lump everyone else in that description with you. No. I think only you belong there. The others do not. You can respond as you like Balerion. I still won't ever take you or your opinions seriously. Your complaint of collusion and that I and perhaps others go out of our way to try to get people banned. I think the fact that you are still here kind of blows that conspiracy of yours out of the water. Certainly, your "venting" above was on another forum. If I was as you described me in your conspiracy theory, do you really think you'd still be here?
Oh, you've tried. You tried to get rid of me over the name incident, goading me the way you did. I just haven't given you the ability to pull the trigger. I'm sure that day will come, of course. You do seem to always get your way. Let's not forget, I wasn't lying when I said that about Fraggle Rocker...
Now, I know, many of the members here will be offended that I dared talk back to you or link the above. Can't please everyone and I stopped trying to do that when I became a teenager. You wanted an honest assessment. This was it. You want my head on a stick? Knock yourselves out. If it makes you feel better? Okay. Again, knock yourselves out.
We'll be truly happy when you're no longer a member of this forum. You could make that happen, of course, just by leaving. That way we wouldn't have to worry about you anymore. But I think you like abusing your powers and treating other members as lesser beings. You get a kick out of it. Otherwise, you wouldn't fight for it so tenaciously.