I do not think we should police the term.
They distinctly chose to identify themselves by that term originally and it went on for quite a while before they finally came to realise what it actually meant. And that only happened when the more 'liberal' media started snorting with utter derision, at their, well.. at their dangling teabags and calling themselves teabaggers on national TV.
For example, as David Weigel points out, it was not until more liberal media commentators and others started chuckling about it on national television that the self identifying teabaggers became offended.
Consider the timeline. Even after more liberal pundits were snorting with laughter, at teaparty events, you could still buy "proud to be a TeaBagger" badges and apparently wear it with pride. In September 2009, they were still selling it. However, there was a report that Obama also used the term in describing the self-described "teabagger" movement and that was apparently when it became so offensive to them. As Weigel points out:
If the Tea Party activists and their allies are going to take offense at certain terms being applied to them, they should probably avoid self-identifying with those same terms.
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Or more to the point:
The origin of the term is relevant in determining the relative size of the Tea Party’s violin. What wasn’t pointed out to Tapper is the fact that the Tea Partiers not only invented the term, they did so in order to inflict a similar double entendre onto the President, the Democrats, and liberals in general. Hence, it’s a violin so small, you need an electron microscope with a zoom lens to see it.
Now, they’re trying to re-cast the term as a slur, on a par with the “n-word,” hurtful to all the Tea Party members who are just ordinary moms, dads, sons, and daughters. The latter point has some resonance, but the former is ridiculous in the extreme.
In emails, protest signs, t-shirts, and online, early Tea Party literature urged protesters to “Tea Bag the White House,” and to “Tea-bag the liberal Dems before they tea-bag you.” The suggestion is that the metaphoric “tea-bags” be shoved in the mouths of the President, Democratic members of Congress, and even ordinary citizens who identify as liberal Democrats. The idea that they just didn’t know the term’s only (at that time) meaning is belied by the fact that they obviously knew it was negative (and non-consensual), since they didn’t want it done to them, and also because it only had one meaning.
It was only after MSNBC’s Rachel Maddow and David Shuster, and CNN’s Anderson Cooper, turned the tables on the term that Tea Partiers objected. They were perfectly satisfied to advocate the metaphoric mouth-rape of liberal men, women, and children, but had the nerve to become indignant when the insult boomeranged on them.
In other words, they really should not be complaining about its use now after liberally using it to describe themselves and what they want to do to liberal Democrats and their President.![]()
(bolding mine)
I just have one question relating to the section in bold, since when is giving someone a felacio non-consentual? (yes i know it doesnt refer strictly to what "felacio" does but they do generally go together)