The Natural Predator inside every human

RainbowSingularity

RainbowSingularity

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RainbowSingularity said:
it was not so much of a specific bully interaction but the sub narrative of emotional blame game projection was very bully normalization reinforcement for power drama queen issues
i knew the boss was panicking after he had done this. he may have caught himself in the process and realised what he was doing.
his job is very mentally interactive, almost 100% mental skill set & the spanner in the works was appearing to be sitting on my belt.

we had good feelings before this
bit of a not soo secret skeleton of annoyance in his closet that i know about that he was reminded of when this was happening.
so i completely understand his potential "oh my god not again" moment interfering with his need to process certain unknown variables
considering what he would have been reminded of was a mild level organisational clusterF of variable issues.

im not looking for some excuse to cut out my pound of flesh
im trying to understand precisely what it is that is annoying me so much to keep raising it in my mind.
there must be a good lesson there which i am currently missing
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wegs said:
Maybe he or simply the interaction triggers you in some way? Maybe dredging up in your mind a past event that haunts you? It’s often not the bully that’s the problem but the bully taps into some other thing we’re hanging on to. My best guess lol
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The Natural Predator inside every human is an intrinsic part of every human psyche.
The Predator that must seek to predate on other lifeforms to find balance between the ethereal(inner complex lower mind fighting for control of the personality to force it to be a single justifiable singular state ) world and the physical world ?

Recent comment by wegs
made me wonder
"bullys are not at fault for being bullys"

is "the bully" the inner predator misaligned looking for vengeance because its core reality of its own psyche is being oppressed or manipulated into some other form ?

interesting concept
 
You aren't quoting her correctly. Your other comments are largely word salad but as I understand it she is saying that sometimes a bully isn't a bully and sometimes a bully is a bully but the effect that it has on you can have more to do with you than with the bully.

I don't think she is saying that being a bully isn't a problem. That doesn't even make sense especially since Wegs is no stranger to you.

For instance lets say that you are 6 feet tall and someone always "bullies" you and calls you shorty. That's a bully but it doesn't bother you much because you aren't in fact short.

That same bullying tacit done to a guy who is 5'1" may upset him more. In that case, the bully hasn't done anything different but the different affect is because it "tapped into something" in the shorter person.

A difference example could be your boss telling you than you need to start coming in on time. They tell you this everyday and sometimes even in front of the rest of the office.

You could feel that you are being bullied. The boss may not be actually bullying you. You are late every day so they have to tell you every day that you are late.

Of course the third option is that you are in fact being bullied and it is just wrong and no one would like it.
 
My response to your actual workplace problem that you posted about was just based on my experiences in those kinds of environments. Which is to say, it happens, you have to learn how to deal with it (not how to take it) but how to deal with it properly and how to begin to structure your work environment (to the degree that you can) to meet your preferences.

You also have to learn how to deal with too aggressive co-workers/bosses. That doesn't mean quitting necessarily, telling them off, etc. It means letting them know that it was an issue for you, not over-reacting and behaving in a manner that demands respect without being overly sensitive.

It's not about "The Predator that must seek to predate on other lifeforms to find balance between the ethereal(inner complex lower mind fighting for control of the personality to force it to be a single justifiable singular state ) world and the physical world ?"
 
RainbowSingularity said:
Discussion Topic

The Natural Predator inside every human is an intrinsic part of every human psyche.
The Predator that must seek to predate on other lifeforms to find balance between the ethereal(inner complex lower mind fighting for control of the personality to force it to be a single justifiable singular state ) world and the physical world ?

Recent comment by wegs
made me wonder
"bullys are not at fault for being bullys"

is "the bully" the inner predator misaligned looking for vengeance because its core reality of its own psyche is being oppressed or manipulated into some other form ?

interesting concept
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A bully by naturte is an awful thing, the ones who bully because they are abused themselves may or may not be reconciled with, as hurting others isnt going to clear you of guilt.
 
kx000 said:
A bully by naturte
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like gay by nature ?

kx000 said:
hurting others isnt going to clear you of guilt.
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you are starting a different subject of discussion
(i dont mind if its directly related & as long as its not prosthelytizing or preaching)

why is the person assumed to be filled with the "guilt" and so acts abusively because of a religious idea that is created to give only a religious power & authority solution to "becoming a religious follower & believer" to be able to have that "guilt" removed to become a non abuser ... ?

religious conversion
being saved (becoming a believer)
exorcism

keeping in mind the psychology you are discussing

your language is christian(i notice you post mostly in the religious subjects)
so you will know Christians are predators, they hunt & kill animals for fun and for food
many Christians become soldiers and hunt and kill humans

The Predator ...

do you eat meat ?
 
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RainbowSingularity said:
like gay by nature ?



you are starting a different subject of discussion
(i dont mind if its directly related & as long as its not prosthelytizing or preaching)

why is the person assumed to be filled with the "guilt" and so acts abusively because of a religious idea that is created to give only a religious power & authority solution to "becoming a religious follower & believer" to be able to have that "guilt" removed to become a non abuser ... ?

religious conversion
being saved (becoming a believer)
exorcism

keeping in mind the psychology you are discussing

your language is christian(i notice you post mostly in the religious subjects)
so you will know Christians are predators, they hunt & kill animals for fun and for food
many Christians become soldiers and hunt and kill humans

The Predator ...

do you eat meat ?
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What has "gay" or "religion" got to do with anything? I don't mostly post in the religious forum.

Your boss at work make a comment that embarrassed you and you felt that you were being bullied.

How do you even function at work? Noone can have a sensible conversation with you even on here.
 
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