What is there to prove ? Your post is riddled with so many inaccuracies, that there is nothing to prove.
Lets take one by one....
How can you equate any kind of mass with momentum ? Physics chapter 1 deals with dimensional analysis. If we equate two things, they will have to be dimensionaly same, isn't it ? Mass is [M] while momentum is [MLT^-1]....Now pl throw some light how they are same ?
You are an EFE man, in the past you have used EFE (acronym only, not the equations) innumerable times. Pl get back to EFEs, and prove to yourself what happens to Stress Energy Tensor when test particle has comparable relativistic mass with the main object.
No, momentum is (gamma * rest mass * Velocity).....
(The equation above gives the formula for gamma also, and gamma * Mo is relativistic mass.)
PS: Don't attempt to prove me wrong, you will prove the SR/GR/Lorentz transformations wrong..