Xelasnave.1947
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I can see how this could happen but every case and context is different. I dont know why he was leading you if you had no interest or asked about her interest etc but usually people will ask about their current relationship or who they may meet in the near future etc.
In reflection I think he really wanted a relationship with her and was sortta using me as an agent, if that makes any sence.
She and he were into similar stuff.
Anyways they never got together which is a pity really now that I think about it they would have been good for each other.
Anyways I have some appreciation how you could regard the cards and so I would not argue about what may be taking place.
As I have said my friend sincerely believed he helped people and I suspect his clients felt that way.
It may be like religion some folk need something to make them feel special and I have often thought the reason why I make friends easily is because I somehow make them feel special or at least good about themselves.
The only reason I seem to get on very well with ladies is because they sence my respect for them as people I dont think its special but I notice at the pub when in a group the guys over talk the girls.
Just listening probably is somewhat rare.
Alex