Tell me how any knowledge about the universe would have told you this one baby would have been born as "you". What facts about biology, or dna, or neurons, would have identified the one baby you were born as AS you? None whatsoever. Your meness, it's showing up at a particular time and place, is not something logically given by any physical circumstances. You can SAY it is, but you have no proof. Quit trying to twist my points into something they're not.
It's surprisingly simple, MR. If we are not born as ourselves, the alternative is that we are born as someone else.
How many people do you know who are not their own "me", but are in fact their neighbour Bob next door?
We are who we are. We can be no different to that. We are born as ourselves. We can not be born as Bob next door.
It is entirely logical, it is entirely supported by science, by biology, by everything you care to think of, you just merely need to think about it correctly.
That one baby could not have been born as anyone else other than the person they were born as. There simply is no alternative with natural births, and only science-fiction can possibly provide an alternative.
Their consciousness is revealed firsthand only to them. Just like mine is to me. The self-evidence for their being is in their own experience, not mine.
And? What leads you to conclude that they are not conscious? Can we prove it, no, but we can accept it based on reason. Unless you wish to go down the solipsist path?
But prior to that me, I could have been born as anybody. There are no constraints on existing to the non-existent.
No, you could not have been anybody. That other person would not be you, it would be someone else. They may talk, look, act like you in many ways, but they would be themselves, not you, and thus different from you. "You" are who you are. They are who they are.
It would certainly be a different you. Perhaps a psychotic you, or genius composer you, or transgender you. I'm not prepared however to say it isn't you to some degree. Identity may afterall not be so black and white. Haven't you ever felt "not yourself"? Haven't behaviors not typical of you ever surfaced, perhaps in response to brain chemical changes?
It wouldn't be me. Close is no cigar. If you are talking to them then you are talking to them, and not someone who could have been me.
As for feeling "not yourself", this would just be part of who you are, to experience such things.
So any number of millions of brothers and sisters to me couldn't have been born at the same time and place to my parents instead of me? I disagree. There is no fate that you would be. It's the luck of a draw. We got very lucky, that's all.
Sure, the same way that you could have dealt the cards in any different combination. But you didn't. What were the chances! Wow! Spooky!
Assuming we even know what "being you" means. I'm not so sure about it. What makes you "you? I suspect it isn't the DNA, the brain, or the environment you were raised in. I suspect it is YOUR awareness as a me--an awareness that seems indistinguishable from anyone else's. Why couldn't you be aware of yourself, as a "me", as another person?
What makes me "me" would be the fact of being conscious and the physical differences (DNA et al) and experiences. Whether the ability to be conscious is the same for each of us is irrelevant, as the "me" aspect is the sum of experience and the consistency of those experiences with the way we process them.
I'm assuming familiarity with yourself as you are. I'm then asking what were the odds of that happening before you existed. That you, out of all the possible alternatives, would come into being? There is no fate here. The situation could have been entirely different. Yet it wasn't.
And in asking that question you are asking something very different to "No logic tells us that this one baby out of billions would turn out to be you."
You are as clueless about what happens in death as I am.
Discussion with you would suggest otherwise.
You are not priveleged with some preview due to your superior reasoning and logic.
Perhaps not, but reasoning and logic can show us what is more rational to accept.
You therefore have a belief about what death will be for you that fits an agenda you have about what the world is or should be. It suits you somehow to stoically accept nonexistence as if this is some sort of brutal objective honesty. It isn't. It's just a metaphysical position on a state that is totally cloaked to us, and indeed will always be cloaked to us should you be right about.
Indeed, but it is a position about which we can still differentiate between what is rational to accept and what is mere wishful thinking.
Cuz if your consciousness simply ceases to be in death, then you won't even be there to know it. You essentially have a belief about something, which if it IS true, won't ever be known to be true. At least I posit a scenario in which confirmation is possible.
And that somehow makes it more acceptable, reasonable, rational? Again you are just confirming your need to think wishfully, to satisfy some emotional requirement.
But don't mistake my position for a belief... it is merely the practical acceptance of a position. If you wish to consider that a "belief" then I would question your usage but at least understand what it is you are referring to as a "belief".
You have emotional attachments to notions too. To feeling virtuous and unflinching in accepting death as nonexistence. That's a pleasant feeling for you.
You think?? Seriously?
You don't think I'd rather there
was/is an after-life, where I can continue to exist in one form or another, where perhaps I can be reunited with family, friends?
You seriously think that it is a pleasant feeling to accept that this isn't the case?
Although not exactly the stoic feat it is cracked up to be. Nonexistence is the permanent elimination of all pain, fear, uncertainty, despair, and angst regarding life. It's like going to sleep forever. That would be nice too I guess. In some ways it is better than continued consciousness. At least you are assured of eternal relief from this fitful fever called life. And if believing that helps you live your life, more power to you.
I don't imagine it is like going to sleep: I look forward to going to sleep as I enjoy dreaming. I imagine death is like being knocked unconscious... permanently.
It is also not an eternal "relief" as such a word implies an experience of the lessening.
And does it help me to accept this about death? No. Not particularly. It is something I accept as being the most rational and reasonable explanation. And I just deal with it, no matter how more emotionally appealing the alternatives may be.