"Sanctuary" I like that word and wish more women believed in it for their men.![]()
It may seem a bit odd to use a word like 'sanctuary' when discussing intimate relationships, yet it requires tremendous use of energy to engage with others, more so when most time is spent with one significant other, and sometimes we all need some personal time and space away, even from those whom we most care about.
This seems like a good point to suggest that relationships where one partner is vegetarian/vegan and the other a meat-eater can work just fine as long as neither insists upon attempts to 'convert' the other.
My partner eats considerably differently than I, and we address this by each eating what we want, cooking for ourselves. Frequently one of us will cook for both with the menu of our choice. We just ask the other if they would like any of what is on the proposed menu prior to cooking. This has worked well for us, as we work different schedules but have the same days off, so seldom any conflict over the kitchen space.