How many sexual partners is too many??????

Too many really depends on age and circumstances, 4 over 30 years that you feel you loved is not so bad, 4 in 4 nights is too much.
Basic rules are that when a woman tells you how many people she's slept with - double it, and expect it to include at least one woman.
With men you should always halve the number.

In dragons defence I don't think he said he expects it, just that it's desirable; This is entirely understandable and a reasonable desire, wouldn't it just make it so much more special?
Yet obviously plenty of people hop into the sack with as many people as possible and it's not a big deal to them. I think it says a lot about a person, usually more than they admit.
 
Anti-Flag said:
Basic rules are that when a woman tells you how many people she's slept with - double it, and expect it to include at least one woman.
With men you should always halve the number.
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hahah funny I have always been honest about how many, when asked. ( and there has been NO WOMEN and never will be):bugeye:
Its really not that hard to remember for me......Like I said if its that hard to remember and you need to use your fingers and toes to count, its too many.
 
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Orleander said:
OK, show of hands everyone. Who here, besides me, is going to hell for having sex with someone they didn't love? Superstring, you don't nee to raise both of them. ;)

I never understand why people put so many rules on themselves. It takes so much of the fun out of life.
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coming from the woman who couldn't figure out if she was cheating :rolleyes:
 
Xev said:
Are most girls this sensitive?
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Quite a lot of them, yes.
A girl I know recently left her husband, mainly because he had porn.

In most cases it is simple insecurity and feelings of inadequacy.
No offense, shorty, I'm not saying that's what it is in your case.
Sometimes it is strong moral objections to the objectification of women and the industry practices etc.
Most often, though, it is the woomen wondering what he is not getting at home, and why he has to "go elsewhere" to be satisfied - simple insecurity, low self esteem and lack of trust/faith in the man they are with.
 
one_raven said:
Quite a lot of them, yes.
A girl I know recently left her husband, mainly because he had porn.

In most cases it is simple insecurity and feelings of inadequacy.
No offense, shorty, I'm not saying that's what it is in your case.
Sometimes it is strong moral objections to the objectification of women and the industry practices etc.
Most often, though, it is the woomen wondering what he is not getting at home, and why he has to "go elsewhere" to be satisfied - simple insecurity, low self esteem and lack of trust/faith in the man they are with.
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no offence taken raven,

When you make it so good at home, there is no reason to go elsewhere :D


btw hows married life ;)
 
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shorty_37 said:
Well I don't know about "girls" but women (I know)are sensitive about it yes. Some don't say too much to the partner but talk to the women about how much it bothers them. I say why pretend if something bothers you that much SPEAK up and fix it. Why live with something that upsets you.
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Well, you shouldn't. If it upsets you, you should find a man with your values.
I just don't understand why it upsets some women, beyond the feminist arguments (which don't influence a lot of girls)

Now if a woman belongs to the once a month club then I can see why
a man would want some porn for his 'masturbatory habits'. If they are satisfied there is hardly any need for that ;)
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But there's making love and there's getting off. Sometimes I don't want to make love - I just want to get off because I'm horny or frustrated. And that would make for boring sex, because I don't feel like really pleasing anyone at that point.
Besides, sometimes your boy looks really cute when he's asleep , and you just don't want to wake him. :)

one raven:
Quite a lot of them, yes.
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Maybe it is a generational thing.
 
shorty_37 said:
hahah funny I have always been honest about how many, when asked. ( and there has been NO WOMEN and never will be):bugeye:
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You must be one of the few, most have experimented at least once, and few are honest about how many, it's just one of those things people are ashamed of, and to get the nice guy most women feel the need to lie at some points.
Its really not that hard to remember for me......Like I said if its that hard to remember and you need to use your fingers and toes to count, its too many.
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Agreed, but some can count higher than others.;)
 
shorty_37 said:
coming from the woman who couldn't figure out if she was cheating :rolleyes:
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Leave Dragon alone: at least he's not an embittered, whiny little man.
That's more than some of you can say.
 
You must be one of the few, most have experimented at least once, and few are honest about how many, it's just one of those things people are ashamed of,
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Riiiight, because the skanks who make out or dance with each other for attention are soooo ashamed of their pseudo-sapphism.
 
Xev said:
Riiiight, because the skanks who make out or dance with each other for attention are soooo ashamed of their pseudo-sapphism.
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I made no mention of the skanks, who incidently mostly just use it for attention from the typical male and aren't actually interested in each other, not really what I'd class as experimentation so much as deliberate deception.
Seeing as we're on the subject though, how many straight women openly admit to having been with another woman to see what it's like?(and I don't just mean to their close friends).
You could possibly include some bi women as not all of them openly admit being bi. There's still a stigma attached to it and most people hide it away.
 
I am totally straight.......except for the one time i had a dream about
Liv Tyler lmao
 
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