Hot, Passionate Sex!

I think great sex comes from knowing another person well enough to know what turns them on. Doesn't mean you need to be in a relationship, but the better the overall connection (intellectually, emotionally, physically) the better the sex will be, imo.
 
wegs said:
I think great sex comes from knowing another person well enough to know what turns them on. Doesn't mean you need to be in a relationship, but the better the overall connection (intellectually, emotionally, physically) the better the sex will be, imo.
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I don't know, Wegs. Perhaps I'm a dirty old man. It doesn't take much to get my motor running...still...at my age.

 
Bowser said:
I don't know, Wegs. Perhaps I'm a dirty old man. It doesn't take much to get my motor running...still...at my age.
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Age can be the wild card for your question.

I was thinking at a young age and it affects a future psyche indefinitely, and you're talking about old age.

To be honest :rolleyes:

For me, that'd have to be some really really good sex.
 
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You trying to kill off the old guys?
The original question wasn't whether you enjoyed sex - it's pleasure, and we enjoy pleasure - so what? The question was:
Would you agree that a single passionate encounter, the kind that leaves you breathless and your heart pounding, is worth a lifetime of simply having sex?
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which is a lot like asking whether a really great meal at Chez Pierre was worth a lifetime of fasting.
Nope. Pleasure is always better than lack of pleasure, but a variety of pleasures, joys, satisfactions and delights in moderation spread over a lifetime beats the hell out of a single obsession.
 
Jeeves said:
You trying to kill off the old guys?
The original question wasn't whether you enjoyed sex - it's pleasure, and we enjoy pleasure - so what? The question was:

which is a lot like asking whether a really great meal at Chez Pierre was worth a lifetime of fasting.
Nope. Pleasure is always better than lack of pleasure, but a variety of pleasures, joys, satisfactions and delights in moderation spread over a lifetime beats the hell out of a single obsession.
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I don't know about that. My father grew up eating possum and squirrels. The one and only time his father took him to town and bought him a hamburger was unforgettable. Sure, if your hungry a possum or a squirrel might seem pretty good, but it doesn't compare to a real cheese burger.
 
Bowser said:
I'm sorry, did my OP limit you to just one cheese burger?
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The OP asked us if one amazing cheeseburger, the kind that leaves you breathless and your heart pounding, is worth a lifetime of ordinary cheeseburgers.

The answer is obviously no.
 
sideshowbob said:
The OP asked us if one amazing cheeseburger, the kind that leaves you breathless and your heart pounding, is worth a lifetime of ordinary cheeseburgers.

The answer is obviously no.
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No, possum and squirrels. But if you had been eating possum and squirrels all your life and suddenly got your hands on a cheese burger, would you go back to eating possum and squirrels?

I think I understand. You feel fortunate to have had possum and squirrels, and you would settle for possum and squirrels, having never had a cheese burger?
 
Bowser said:
But if you had been eating possum and squirrels all your life and suddenly got your hands on a cheese burger, would you go back to eating possum and squirrels?
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The OP didn't compare apples and oranges. It compared spectacular apples with ordinary apples.

A priest and a rabbi:
Priest: Be honest. Have you ever tried bacon?
Rabbi: Well, yes, once.
Priest: Be honest. It's pretty good, isn't it?
Rabbi: Well... yes. But you be honest. Have you ever had sex?
Priest: Well, yes, once.
Rabbi: It's better than bacon, isn't it?
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Bowser said:
In which way? I mean, if you settle for laying a rug rather than a ride on a roller coaster, what are your expectations?
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Eh, if you're equating the saying: It's better to have loved and lost than never have loved before... to merely sex -you're seriously fucking with my head.
 
Beer w/Straw said:
Eh, if you're equating the saying: It's better to have loved and lost than never have loved before... to merely sex -you're seriously fucking with my head.
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SEX is but a small fraction of life's experience, but it should be fantastic nonetheless. If you have a best friend who loves you, and is also your lover, kudos to you. I hope you go at it like wild monkeys...often. :biggrin:
 
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Bowser said:
He never wanted possum or squirrel again. I'm sorry, did my OP limit you to just one cheese burger?
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Would you agree that a single passionate encounter, the kind that leaves you breathless and your heart pounding, is worth a lifetime of simply having sex?
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Single does, in fact, mean, one. Yes.
One great meal or a lifetime of ordinary meals. For me a cheeseburger is almost as underwhelming as possum, but the question was a choice between one extraordinary experience and many ordinary ones. In apple parlance, I suppose you'd take that one in Eden and never crave apple again, but as sex goes, I've managed all right with just pretty good, reliably, safely and frequently - I wouldn't trade that for the receding memory of a Brief Encounter.
 
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