We are? Why? So that we can have a universe like Star Wars or Star Trek? Unfortunately the universe does not care (at least I don't think it cares) what we want. It may be that it is simply not economically or physically feasible to get off this rock and explore other star systems. It would be kind of sad, but it is what it is.
That would also be the answer to the question, "if there are other intelligent beings in the universe where are they?" They are on their home planet unable to visit us.
I do quite agree. The sad conclusion I think is closing in is that we are stuck on our own little lifeboat here.