Why not we try a simple experiment and try to go a step ahead of AR?
If you can avoid getting sexually aroused finding yourself naked and locked in a room with a naked 12 yr old girl for 8 hours without any availability of clothes, I will give it to you that your claim is valid.
In fact i suggested a slightly different version of this experiment on a religious forum on techniques to recruit catholic priests.
This is hardly a decent experiment, any normal man would likely take off their own top and cloth the child, rather than harbour the discussion notions that you would otherwise support.
Luckily it's not something I'm ever going to have to deal with but I know the suggests that yourself and AR make in this subject would have me feeling nauseated.
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The Fact however remains, Paedophiles are "Predators", however
they are too weak to prey on anyone other than children. When an adult has an understanding of their own rights, they've gained experience in regards to law and realise they alone are culpable for their own actions.
A child learns and plays, but for the most part they look to people older than themselves for wisdom. For this they leave themselves open because they don't necessarily understand how they can be turned into being a particular way ("Groomed").
(Some predator's can be assumed to have a higher than average IQ. They usually tend to overlook their "crimes" as being crimes, as their IQ makes them "Subjective" and they rationalise their own basis of subjectivity. This sort or predatorial mind suffers an Acute form of Schizophrenia [please note that Schizophrenia is a generic term] due to their inability to understand that their own actions effects others, but is subjective enough to understand how they can manipulate the law or an audience to their own whim. It's known that some paedophiles that "take" children don't just befriend the children, but the adults/parents too and in most cases they are related family members that gain trust through the family circle.)
When people try to define that paedophilia is not a mental illness, I'll put it quite simply to you. The reason it's termed a mental illness is because when these sick twisted individuals are brought before a court on charges, there grounds of defence is they "were not mentally competent to stand trial as a normal adult" (e.g. mentally deficient).
They do this to get a weaker sentence because they know full well that if they were placed into a standard prison for their crimes, they wouldn't last a week.
There are certain crimes against humanity that even the hardest of convicted felons stand against and one of them just happens to be "paedophilia". Since long serving criminals can try to adopt ways of gaining respect through prisoners (and potentially prison guards), paedophiles are targeted for abuse if not physical violence.
While some might claim that paedophiles should have rights and be defended against such abuse in prisons (amongst other places), just remember that these "Lambs" are merely "Wolves in Sheep's clothing".
The only real debate about paedophilia to be had is:
"What should we do with them?"
Obviously there is no letting them off and I would personally prefer if they didn't use Mental illness as a scapegoat (A lot of people out there suffer mental illnesses without grotesquely abusing children.)
Some suggested methods:
- Surgically removing their testicles to remove testosterone and therefore their ability to be aroused physically. (Although it's not actually the testicles that cause arousal but a part of the brain)
- Make them Physically take drugs that either destroys the reward centres that generate pleasant reactions in regards to children and therefore stop arousal, or the usage of neural linguistic programming therapy to make them feel sick should they be within 20 metres of a child. (Obviously the latter does undermine their ability to function as a normal person in society, since they would likely hide themselves from the world)
- Lock them up (This really doesn't work, and causes more problems then good because obviously they will more than likely be killed by normal prisoners)