95% of posters here never complain. They just post interesting stuff, make comments, talk to people online etc.
Then there are the 5% who spend 90% of their time complaining - complaining about other members, complaining about moderation, complaining about the site itself, complaining that they aren't treated as special, even though mummy always told them they were.
Repeat complainers are obviously beating their heads against a brick wall. If they aren't satisfied with the moderation here after 100 complaints, I'll wager they'll never be satisfied with the moderation here. It makes perfect sense, therefore, to cut their losses and find a forum that suits them better.
It's a win-win for everybody.
Fascinating.
To be frank, I have no problem whatsoever with the rules which govern this site. If the rules specifically said "Personal attacks are fine if they are directed at people the moderating team doesn't like" I'd stop posting on this forum in a flash, since it obviously isn't the place for me.
What I object to is that the moderators have a tendency to pay these rules lip service, enforcing them only when it is convenient to do so. The most blatant example offered in this thread is with Skinwalker, who pretty much neglects to enforce the 'no personal attacks' rule on his subforum when those attacks are being directed at theists.
When the rules that the owners set out are *not* being adhered to by the moderating staff, should the onus be on members who are dissatisified to find a different forum, or should they demand that the moderators (who don't own this forum) either follow the rules the owners set out, or fuck off to a forum which better suits their needs? That's the problem here, we're being told by the owner that we're entitled to X, but then the moderators run roughshod over everyone and tell them that quite the contrary, they aren't entitled to X! The rules say no personal attacks, but god damn, the moderators tell us that it's ok to make personal attacks against a segment of the member base who they personally feel are deserving of ridicule!
And the above bullshit also introduces inconsistency. If I were to ridicule Muslims in Skinwalker's forum, I would come out of it unscathed. If I were to say the exact same thing in Tiassa's forum, I'd be banned so fast I wouldn't have time to type 'WTF?!'
In summary: Why do moderators feel themselves to be above the rules set out by the owners? The rules presented aren't guidelines, they aren't arbitrary bullshit that can just be ignored when it is convenient to do so. Quite the contrary, the no personal attacks rule is pretty unambiguous. NO PERSONAL ATTACKS. So why can a moderator condone personal attacks on particular members of this forum? Why? How the hell can a moderator get away with such a flagrant disregard of the rules without a peep from the other moderators? How can you demod S.A.M and Asguard for their indiscretions, but not Skinwalker?
I mean, I don't even care about the guy, I never post on the Religious subforum, but jesus christ, the inconsistency is so obvious it's mind boggling that nobody says anything.