Cosmictraveler said:
I am getting tired of seeing reports of the transgender operation of one person. There are less than 1% of the population that want to be transgender and even less that can afford such an operation. So why do we need to have this as front page news? A 50 year old has been that is transgender, what's the big deal here? I don't think that making space or giving air time to this one percent is needed when there are more things going on that need attention. So lets figure out why crap "news" like this is even being thrown at us because I can't understand why it is even news.
In truth these sorts of inquiries bring both amusement and disgust; I admit, there is very little basic sympathy in my reaction. That said, I will try to set those sentiments aside.
There is more going on here than you describe. Our society is always in transition, it is true, but there is a pretty significant paradigm shift occurring in our regard for sex, gender, and sexuality. I am bound by the duties of basic decency to here observe my own distaste that all of this is happening while our society aims to push women back down the human rights ladder. That said, I will try to set that sentiment aside.
This particular transition was unimaginable a quarter-century ago. Back then, the limits of the Christian supremacist imagination seemed to be gay marriage. So the argument went, if you don't ostracize gays to the point of rewriting medical school curricula and hamstringing prosecutors when a crime victim happens to be homosexual, then the damn faggots will want to get married. And as I've said many times, we would not have achieved the marriage equality we will win this month without the zealots pushing the issue.
But what we're winning right now is huge. It goes way beyond gay marriage. Next up are our transgender neighbors, a fragile community fraught with the perils of oppression, and our supremacist neighbors are prepared to bring their own fearmongering 'round full circle―in Texas, they're going after children.
What? Does nobody remember that time? A time when no amount of logical, supported argument could overcome the dullard argument that the queers are comin' for the kids? You know, just like nearly no logical, supported argument can overcome the moronic appeal to emotion that they're coming to steal your money, your guns, your religion, your thoughts?
It is one thing to say those who don't learn from history are condemned to repeat it, but even should historical cycles not be accelerating, the question remains how people can forget history they lived through. Like Chief Justice Roberts, who expressed during oral arguments in
Windsor his serious doubts that animus had anything to do with the Defense of Marriage Act. Which might be a bit more believable if he hadn't lived through the time; even more so if he hadn't done
pro bono work in the trenches of the gay rights movement. Really, John? We're supposed to believe you don't remember? We're supposed to believe you can read the historical record without perceiving the animus? Really, John? We're supposed to believe your doubts?
Where's the fucking bar, John? I mean, really. That
was an undignified performance by the Chief Justice.
And yet we come 'round the circle. Now it's the Christian zealots, and they really are after the children.
That's how far we've come.
In truth, I hadn't been paying attention to the Caitlyn story. You see, in my little corner of the Universe, transgenderism is so normal and human that this whole thing seemed like distant celebrity gossip of the sort I generally disdain. It's not that there aren't many transgendered in the world that I wondered who cared. It's that I forgot how big a deal this is to some people. When the magazine cover hit, sure, I was impressed, but come on, Thomas Roberts on msnbc showing us the Caitlyn cover? Big effin' deal. That's about as spectacular as Rachel Maddow saying John Boehner is bad at his job.
And then the public discourse went nuts.
In my world, this isn't big news because transgender is no big deal. It isn't a matter of sucking up airtime when there are more things going on in the world. Once again, I'm in the minority; this is apparently a
huge deal to
a whole freakin' lot of people.
Part of it is that I've already been through this. And maybe
Christine↱ is another reason I didn't want to pay attention to the story. Six years later, it still hurts, and
badly. But it isn't fair to ask any one person to carry that burden. The death of Christine Daniels hurt like nothing ever should when it's somebody you've never met. We needed her. Goddess grant, we needed her. And all she ever wanted was to be and feel human.
And this time, we are through the looking glass; Caitlyn becomes the icon.
There is a reason so many people are making a big deal out of this; Caitlyn is the harbinger of the new day. That is to say, these people care because their Universe just turned inside out, and the arrival of
this symbol means this is the way things are, now, and there's no going back.
I don't think you're ignorant of the fact that societies use celebrity as allegory and fable and communal symbol.
The FOX News freakout is, I believe, instructive on this occasion:
Fox Business Network's Neil Cavuto, for example, opened his "Business Alert" segment by pulling up the Vanity Fair cover and shouting out, “What the hell is going on!?"
Reporter Dagen McDowell responded by repeatedly using male pronouns to describe Jenner's identity ....
.... Bill O'Reilly's comment later that evening summed up the network's problem:
"Now he's Caitlyn," O'Reilly said, looking at the cover. "That's Bruce Jenner."
(Taibi↱)
That's why it's a big deal. Perhaps you don't think it's worth the airtime, and that's fine. But this is why it's a big deal. Really? It's worth shouting about? It's worth going out of one's way to publicly deny?
Really?
Well, if we consider that their comfortable supremacist Universe just turned inside out―remember that constant obsession with other people's sex lives is how the virtuous Christian avoids sexual temptation ... well ... in that Universe, at least―then yes, it really is worth ... er ... ah ... humiliating oneself as certain FOX News personalities decided to. Or something like that. In truth, this vicious cruelty only makes sense to me in an abstract, academic way.
But that's the thing. The cruelty exists. It is an awful, grotesque fear that some people simply choose to live in. Well, you know, they choose it unless it can be shown that being Republican or Christian is a chromosomal thing. But, in the end, if their equal rights mean others must suffer inequality and injustice, there is a functional problem that is entirely their own. And outside my little Universe, it still happens to be that this cruelty is a genuine problem in our society.
It is a deadly cruelty.
And for my side of this fight, every conscientious sympathy we can win not only helps the political struggle, but has the potential to save a life.
So, you know, if Caitlyn―you know, the former Olympic medalist and Wheaties cover boy?―helps some Americans get over their fears and start accepting that this is the real world, yeah, that's a
really big fuckin' deal.
And besides, watch your Mondays. One of the next three will bump Caitlyn from the news cycle until someone asks her about the Supreme Court, but generally that's where the queer headlines will be. So, you know, there's something. We can both hope for this coming Monday.
(Oh, come on, who wants to bet on the twenty-ninth? If the Court does
Burwell and
Obergefell on the same day, we might actually see riots, and I have no idea what they would be about. That could be a hell of a Monday, so I'll put odds on splitting up the rulings.)
The Caitlyn wave represents a significant portion of Americans coming to terms with the fact of transgenderism in society. And in this time of zealous cruelty―they really are
coming for the children↱ in Texas―the fifty year-old has-been is an icon of a societal revolution, a symbol of the new reality. This is how people deal with things in their role as The People.
And, in truth, that's how it works regardless of how you feel about it.
I'd think the less said about this would be better off for the transgender community for that way they don't have a spotlight on them and can live in the "straight" world without fear. The more attention given the more problems for them I'd think.
Don't give us that.
We've heard that the whole time. Just hush, don't fight, and everything will be okay. It was a hard case to make when the question came from zealots hoping to install supremacism in state law. Yeah, just hush, don't fight, and let them have their way, and everything will be okay.
Do
not give us that.
And it's not a "'straight' world".
What would you tell blacks about a "white world"?
What would you tell women about a "male world"?
Just hush? Don't fight back? Let them have their way? Everything will be okay?
Don't give us that.
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Notes:
Friess, Steve. "Mike Penner, Christine Daniels: A Tragic Love Story". L.A. Weekly. 19 August 2010. LAWeekly.com. 10 June 2015. http://bit.ly/1FSCSIc
Taibi, Catherine. "Fox News Coverage Of Caitlyn Jenner Is What Transphobia Looks Like". The Huffington Post. 2 June 2015. HuffingtonPost.com. 10 June 2015. http://huff.to/1G4cJro