It hasn't occured to me that I have a very philosophy of objectivism.
I meant that it is precisely a philosophy of objectivism that leads to particular problems in communication and interaction between humans.
I'll give you another example of such objectivism, but from a different philosophy/religion.
A Christian calls me a "child of God", and he insists in calling me so. I tell him I am not a "child of God" and do not wish to be called that way, but he laughs at me and keeps insiting "of course you are!" As if I don't exist for him.
He ascribes to me a subjectivity, yes, one that he deems to be objectively true and valuable - but only on
his terms, with complete disregard for my terms.
My subjectivity is being allowed for, but on his terms, and of course for him, this makes perfect sense. I don't like it though, I feel I am being dismissed or taken for granted.
Such an objectivism, despite its claims that other people objectively exist as subjects, is still a form of solipsism, because it understands other people specifically on its own terms, regardless of how others wish to be understood.
I think earlier on, this is what Grantywanty had a problem with in your approach, and I jumped it to bring this to the foreground.
And it would suck to talk about things that are difficult to communicate about, so you come here and discuss "pits of extreme skepticism" to avoid such complications?
Never underestimate the power of meta-thinking and insight. Most things that I learn in such discussions have little to do with what is directly being talked about, but instead it is the meta-thinking and meta-communicative aspects that yield the most useful information.
One way to avoid the pits of extreme skepticism is definitely to avoid discussing stuff, but in order to not become jaded over this, one has to have good reasons to refrain from discussion. So I'm working on figuring out what those good reasons might be. (The OP is asking for alternatives and for criteria why those alternatives are better than ES.)
It's insulting that you presume I didn't read the whole post.
I didn't presume that you didn't read the whole post.
I could see that you read the post by bits and replied to those bits individually. Had you read the whole post first, and made your individual replies based on that, the situation would be different. Or it wasn't so.
I had already noticed this tendency of yours to break things down into small portions, and asked you in an earlier post to read through to the question at the end before replying, in order to prevent unnecessary tangents.
Or perhaps you do read the whole post first, and make your individual replies based on that. But it doesn't always look like that.
Or perhaps you are more into the conversational aspect of these discussions than I am.
I did you see, but to understand your mind better... in hopes of understanding what you mean rather than what you say, I do what I do.
I think this is an approach that can actually complicate things insanely.
I think it would work totally fine if people would be very much alike, or if objective reality would be obvious to everyone. But as it is, they only seem to have some touching points, but that's it. So it seems feasible to focus only on those and work from there.
I apologize for being somewhat snarky, but I find this tangent rather unproductive and pretty annoying. I haven't pressed you to post to the style of my liking or decided to tell you what you are with a nice little label like "asshole" or "objectivist", so I'd ask that you allow me my crutch, though I certainly don't insist that you indulge it.
Unfortunately, we'll probably have many more clashes if we continue communicating.
