I really appreciate and like the concepts of BUDDHISM. But, i have trouble understanding one important concept which Buddha taught us.
Unlike many other things, religions in particular, the concepts of Buddhism are secondary to the actual practice of Buddhism. There are schools of Buddhism, Ch'an and Zen for example, which purposefully obfuscate the concepts so that you can't use them before you penetrate the practice.
So don't worry too much about not getting the concepts. If you do the eight fold path, the concepts will fall in place as your practice matures.
Ok, on the the concept fest...
Buddhism says that there is no SOUL, no SELF and it is only an illusion.
This is one of the three marks of existence: anicca (impermanence), anatta (no soul), and dukkha (dissatisfaction/suffering). These are the foundational realizations that the Buddha had, from which all else in Buddhism is based.
At the same time, BUDDHISM talks about re-incarnation. What does Buddha mean when he talks about re-incarnation?
Actually looking at the records it seems that reincarnation was tagged on after the Buddha's death because its lack was socially unacceptable.
Reincarnation makes no sense in Buddhism. First and foremost because there is nothing to reincarnate.
But let's set reason aside and pretend there is reincarnation. Buddhism is how you stop reincarnating. A Buddha is not reincarnated, that's the whole point. The roots of suffering have been cut off. The fires of desire which lead to incarnation extinguished.
So even if there is reincarnation, there is no further reincarnation in Buddhism
Now that said there are a lot of people, even Buddhists who aught to know better, who really hate the idea of no soul and really like the comfort of reincarnation.
Unfortunately, and this is the third strike against reincarnation, they like it so much the put off to imaginary next lives what they must do with this one.
If there is no soul, no self and no re-incarnation (i guess Buddhism even says there is no GOD as we perceive it today) how can we teach our generation to be good and behave properly?
There is no soul and no reincarnation and no god and never has been and yet we manage any way. It just we may not have realized this before and so used poor methods. With our new realization we can use the most effective means of teaching others to be good and behave properly - setting a good example.
Fear of unknown is what keeps most of the people from becoming barbarics. Don't you think so?
Did you need it?