A culture of violence and crime? No, I wouldn't want to be part of that culture.
And what if I don't like a "culture of violence and greed"?
See, I might not be black, but plenty of white people have problems with people who look Asian. So ... should I hold the schoolyard bully against white people? How about the two white kids who held me down and beat me? Or the white teacher who then assigned me detention? After all, that's how they did it: If two white kids jump a minority, the minority was punished for "being in a fight". How about a guy named Jim Denton, an elementary school principal from Pierce County, Washington, in my youth whose means of settling racism was to tell minorities to try harder to fit in?
Please understand, as I go through my life, the litany continues. I mean, I'm not
black so a lot of it is some middle-aged white guy trying to speak to me in Japanese, or something, though I would note the white woman who, based on what I consider fair factors, was in fact being respectful when she asked her daughter if I was Roma. After being insulted as Mexican, Puerto Rican, Chinese, Japanese, (dirty knees!), (look at these!), Vietnamese, Mongol(-oid), Korean, blamed for four wars―(can I hold the white guy who blamed the Japanese for the First against white people?)―and, yeah, I recall being called a Dago, before, it really was interesting when the inquiries were respectful and wanting. An author writing a book with a Roma protagonist has a
holy shit moment seeing me walk by for the first time? Alright, I get it. The various indigenous Americans who wondered if maybe they're looking at another? I'm not black, but apparently I walk between stereotypes (Japanese-Norwegian is the official telling), and I didn't officially become "white" in most people's eyes, it seems, until sometime in my late twenties. It's true, drunk middle-aged white men trying to impress women haven't randomly started speaking some Asian language to me in a bar since then, and on the occasions I've managed to get myself arrested I get, "Good evening sir, may I see your license and registration", and the injustice I suffer is the everyday corruption of the average officer writing an incident report; that is to say, I don't get cops threatening me with guns unless it's CBP and they ask me if I have any questions and I ask them why I was detained. (No, seriously, dude couldn't even think to say, "Because we can, because we must, and because it's random.")
But it's also true that my entire adult life I've seen the racism continue. And at the end of the day it's worth noting that it's not even a question: I
know white people will not tolerate being judged the way minorities are.
So which white people can we hold against white people? Donald Trump? Britney Spears? George W. Bush? Mel Gibson? A child rapist I have known in my lifetime for his survivors being among my friends? No, seriously, I already know white people won't like being described as a culture of violence and greed.
Here's another one for you:
Can I hold Barack Obama against black people?
Please?
Because that would be a very warm embrace.
The nation's first black president helped establish my human rights.
Seriously, I think the worst I ever got from a black person was in high school when a competitor from another school tried to hit on a friend by asking why she was hanging out with a honky. No, seriously, that's the one time in youth I was white enough to be white, when a teenager with dark skin wanted to hit on a girl with dark skin who was talking to a boy with light skin.
I'm pretty sure I can live with that one.
Tiassa points at the justice system, I point at crime statistics.
I point to history; you flee it.