You are right. Deciding for oneself is not necessarily self-serving (but I did not say it was). It is the fact that deciding for oneself is the only compelling argument for relativism that is self-serving.
Now if you have a compelling argument any less self-serving than "because I can make up my own morals"...
All decisions we make are self-serving, for whatever reason we make them.
Altruism would be the only exception, if one even thinks that true altruism is possible.
So you'll need to do better than claim moral relativism is any more self-serving than objectivism.
Wow, way to lie. You have not cited a credible reference.
Apologies, I would have thought explaining the simple logic of the matter of your implication would have sufficed.
Maybe this was just a completely superfluous question then:
Are we to assume all questions are to be taken as statements to the contrary? Or perhaps you always assume that when somebody asks you "why X?" that they must hold the position of not-X?
That depends on the nature of the dispute. If it is a legal matter then, yes, the law (which, in a free society, tends to reflect the majority) would adjudicate. But any moral dispute that is not legally actionable would be a process of mediation, which definitely engages the moralities of all parties.
Ah, yes, shifting goalposts again: this time from adjudication to mere mediation.
In mediation, an objective adjudicator is necessary, and no, his morality is not a primary factor.
The mediator gets the parties talking and gets the parties to agree between themselves. It is not an objective adjudication.
As soon as the mediator takes on the role of adjudicator then he does so on his own morals, not those of the other parties.
Then why all the evasion, when that is typical of most moral relativists?
And what exactly am I supposed to be evading from? And what are you suggesting is "typical": evasion, or holding tolerance as a virtue?
Could it be that holding tolerance as a virtue demonstrates a degree of laxity of conviction?
In what? In morals? How do you judge what one holds to be a moral in the first instance if not that to which he has conviction?
Thus by default all morals would be held with equal conviction. What you would the see as a "laxity of conviction" is merely a matter of what one considers to be a moral judgement.
Perhaps a matter of conviction? If you never learned/had genuine conviction, the gravity of what you may have been taught could have eluded you. (Of course I have no idea what the breadth of your religious education may have been.)
What is perhaps a matter of conviction? That your unsupported claim goes against everything I have been taught about religion?
And your efforts to try to blame me for you not supporting your claims is laughable.
And there is no single support for any claim of religion in general, as the subject is far too varied.
It need not be religion in general: let's just start with Christianity, which would undoubtedly make up the vast majority of objectivists in the uk and USA.
You can google the views of any given religion.
As can you, to support your claim. Don't expect me to do your legwork for you.
However you wish to word it, difference largely by culture means derived largely from culture. Whatever the vectors of cultural influence (family unit, the close friends, education etc.), they are largely inconsequential as long as the difference is largely a matter of culture in general.
Sure, let's just define culture to be anything that influences the individual's morals.
The objectivist has an independent standard that is less prone to influence. Note the persistence of religion, even a single religion within a wide array of cultures and over a long period of time. I am not, here, assuming the relativist has especially flexible morals, only that they do not tend to have a standard especially independent of their culture. That simply makes them more prone to cultural accommodation.
"More prone" might be significant or it might just be another choice between a spoon or paper cup in trying to move a mountain. Care to actually quantifying the "more"?
Wow, really? There is no reluctance, other than in assuming you may be mentally challenged. I have now answered you twice. Here, I will write it in fingerpaint:
I do not trust meta-ethical moral relativists.
Even spelling it out you fail to understand the question... despite your rather ironic insult.
Let me give you an example of the relevance of your answer:
Me: "Do you like strawberries?"
You: "I don't like chocolate."
So let me ask again: "Would you trust someone purely on them claiming to be a Christian?"
Hopefully now you will understand that you replying "I do not trust a meta-ethical moral relativist" does not answer the question, no matter whether you underline it, write it in capitals, in bold, in colour or even blow it up your arse.
"The meta-ethical position alone is sufficient information" to judge the possible normative morals.
Not an issue, and never was, as there is nothing necessary about those morals, and, as I have been arguing all along, it is the specific morals alone that matter. I.e. It might help you understand "possible" normative morals, but does not answer the important question of what those morals actually are. So your comment just supports how irrelevant it actually is.
No guarantee is required where no trust is given. Nothing is risked.
But it's good to know you would risk leaving your child with someone just because they said they were a Christian.
[qupte]In a situation where I had no choice but to make a snap judgement (being forced to leave a child in a stranger's care), without any opportunity to glean anything more than meta-ethical position, yes, I would pick an objectivist over a relativist every time. [/quote]And hopefully for the last time: that is not the question. It is not a matter of preference. It is not the false dichotomy of having to pick one over the other, but of whether you would trust someone purely on the meta-ethical philosophy they claim. There is always the option, which I'm sure you will vehemently seek to avoid, of saying "I would not trust them on that information alone."
Such a dire situation seems to be the only one that limits the choice as you seem to demand (no normative morals, etc.). So if forced to leave your child with a stranger, what would you do? You have said that the meta-ethical stance is neutral, so with that info alone, you could only flip a coin, right?
False dichotomy: you could simply choose not to trust them.
Yet, given the choice between the objectivist and the person you have already argued would likely hold morals in line with society at large (and so, per your line of arguing, would have morals you would be familiar with) you would still choose an objectivist whose morals could be based on anything?
That is no refute, other than perhaps an
argument from fallacy.
It is a refute: a popular shared subjectivity does not equate to an objectivity. To think otherwise, even to think it is "close to objective" is merely an appeal to authority.