How many sexual partners is too many??????

If she is a nice girl, I've no prejudices. 10,000 is extremely exaggerated.

its not exaggerated if its true though lol. and its not prejudice if she has admitted to sleeping with over 10,000 guys, its a post judgement not pre.


a judgement that says "your a slut, and im not fucking with your dirty ass".


peace.
 
its not exaggerated if its true though lol. and its not prejudice if she has admitted to sleeping with over 10,000 guys, its a post judgement not pre.


a judgement that says "your a slut, and im not fucking with your dirty ass".


peace.

I don't see any prostitutes going out of business, so it cannot be a sexual thing.
 
Too many when there's too many kids around looking like yourself... Thank goodness for condoms hence there's never such thing as too many.... Mwahahaha
 
so if a chick's had 2000 or 10 000, the question is whether I'd marry her or not. Obviously, if the number is that high, guys can't have minded fucking her. Right?

Besides, reality doesn't win every time.:m:

As for jealousy, isn't it kind of a sign of emotion... rather than reason or security? Lack of any jealousy if your partner has had a thousand exes may indicate a lack of love (or fear to admit you do think less of her).
Not that you couldn't just get over the jealousy if you love the partner. But still.
 
stifling? Its only stifling if you feel guilty about it. Tell a friend. There's no need to tell your partner about your previous sex life.

Why not? I thought you were so free and open with everything......cheating doesn't seem like a big deal, porn is good........so why hide that from your husband? So if he asks about it now you won't tell him or you will just lie about it?

Even I ms. prude with all my rules has told nietzche about my previous sex life and he has told me his.......If ppl are that ashamed about it maybe they shouldn't have done everything they did or everyone they met.
 
Why not? I thought you were so free and open with everything......cheating is ok, porn is good........so why hide that from your husband? So if he asks about it now you won't tell him or you will just lie about it?

Even I ms. prude with all my rules has told nietzche about my previous sex life and he has told me his.......If ppl are that ashamed about it maybe they shouldn't have done everything they did or everyone they met.

I'm not the only one here who thinks porn is good. Just because I'm female, I shouldn't like it? :shrug:
I never said cheating was ok. EVER!!! I know I'm not the only person who ever thought 'as long as you end the relationship immediately' it wasn't cheating. I have found out otherwise. Everyone involved has moved on, except you! I swear, I will pay for your theraphy...I hear it helps people.
And unlike you, I haven't said a word about how many men I've been with or what length their dicks were required to be. For you to say that people who don't tell must be ashamed is insecure, judgemental, 'holier-than-thou' moralistic blather. I left my ivory tower decades ago. Maybe some people need to know, so that they feel better about what they consider their failures. If I slept with 2 I can sit in judgement on those who slept with 5. Right?

You forgot to bring up the fact that I talked about the evolutionary need of orgasms and the thread about anal sex. Maybe your next post? :D
 
I'm not the only one here who thinks porn is good. Just because I'm female, I shouldn't like it? :shrug:
I never said cheating was ok. EVER!!! I know I'm not the only person who ever thought 'as long as you end the relationship immediately' it wasn't cheating. I have found out otherwise. Everyone involved has moved on, except you! I swear, I will pay for your theraphy...I hear it helps people.
And unlike you, I haven't said a word about how many men I've been with or what length their dicks were required to be. For you to say that people who don't tell must be ashamed is insecure, judgemental, 'holier-than-thou' moralistic blather. I left my ivory tower decades ago. Maybe some people need to know, so that they feel better about what they consider their failures. If I slept with 2 I can sit in judgement on those who slept with 5. Right?

You forgot to bring up the fact that I talked about the evolutionary need of orgasms and the thread about anal sex. Maybe your next post? :D

I am not targeting you on liking porn, many think its okay, I am the odd one out there.

I only mentioned those 2 things because for no other reason, you seem so free with your views on things I don't understand why you would not tell your husband about your past sexual life if he asked.

I didn't say you should be ashamed.....read again I said some ppl lie about it or don't want to tell why? becaused they are ashamed? worried about what this new partner with think? I don't know:shrug:

Btw I don't recall saying how many men I have been with? but yeah under 6 throw it back lmao
 
When meeting someone that you are getting serious with,
I am somewhat curious as to how many women they have roughly
slept with. With how things are now a days with all these diseases and
such circulating don't you kinda want to know if this person has
been screwing a stranger every friday night for the last 5 yrs.
Then you can get to some more serious questions like ummmmmmm
and you wore a condom hopefully.

In a way don't you kind of think it is somewhat this persons....potential
partner husband wife whatevers right to ask you........and for you to tell
them the truth?

Personally I wouldn't want a player that has slept with tons of women,
because there is the potential there to continue this behavior even
after they are with someone.
 
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Oh, and you're right. The number of people a person has slept with is a 'don't ask, don't tell one"

It seems men want to know how many other you have slept with (and I think they hope there is a woman or two in there) and women want to know how many others he has been in love with.

That is true. If a man hes sex with 200+ women (like i have-mostly Atheist women but that number may be high 'cause i dont remember) then it is forgiveable BUT if she finds that one he really loved then the women will get crazy and dwell on it. Especially if she find pictures of the two of you having fun on vacations etc So it is 200 ok and one not ok.

On the other hand a man can accept a women being in love once before but NOT her being with 200+ men. I know i would not want to be with a women who had 200+ lovers. After all is said and done i really wish i was only with one women for my whole life but in some ways i dont blame myself because i did not have to work at it.:)
 
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Orleander said:
It seems men want to know how many other you have slept with (and I think they hope there is a woman or two in there) and women want to know how many others he has been in love with.

That sounds about right to me.
 
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