The number is irrelevant.
When you go to a party as a couple, half of people at the party has fucked your spouse ....and they all glance at you and grin.
I agree. That doesn't matter.
Because its usually a relative.....why do they grin?![]()
Because its usually a relative.....
If she is a nice girl, I've no prejudices. 10,000 is extremely exaggerated.
its not exaggerated if its true though lol. and its not prejudice if she has admitted to sleeping with over 10,000 guys, its a post judgement not pre.
a judgement that says "your a slut, and im not fucking with your dirty ass".
peace.
stifling? Its only stifling if you feel guilty about it. Tell a friend. There's no need to tell your partner about your previous sex life.
Why not? I thought you were so free and open with everything......cheating is ok, porn is good........so why hide that from your husband? So if he asks about it now you won't tell him or you will just lie about it?
Even I ms. prude with all my rules has told nietzche about my previous sex life and he has told me his.......If ppl are that ashamed about it maybe they shouldn't have done everything they did or everyone they met.
I'm not the only one here who thinks porn is good. Just because I'm female, I shouldn't like it? :shrug:
I never said cheating was ok. EVER!!! I know I'm not the only person who ever thought 'as long as you end the relationship immediately' it wasn't cheating. I have found out otherwise. Everyone involved has moved on, except you! I swear, I will pay for your theraphy...I hear it helps people.
And unlike you, I haven't said a word about how many men I've been with or what length their dicks were required to be. For you to say that people who don't tell must be ashamed is insecure, judgemental, 'holier-than-thou' moralistic blather. I left my ivory tower decades ago. Maybe some people need to know, so that they feel better about what they consider their failures. If I slept with 2 I can sit in judgement on those who slept with 5. Right?
You forgot to bring up the fact that I talked about the evolutionary need of orgasms and the thread about anal sex. Maybe your next post?![]()
Oh, and you're right. The number of people a person has slept with is a 'don't ask, don't tell one"
It seems men want to know how many other you have slept with (and I think they hope there is a woman or two in there) and women want to know how many others he has been in love with.
Orleander said:It seems men want to know how many other you have slept with (and I think they hope there is a woman or two in there) and women want to know how many others he has been in love with.