Your Moments Of Rejection

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  1. darksidZz Valued Senior Member

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    Describe in detail how you once asked someone out and they rejected you. Give us every feeling you experienced along with the words they spoke.

    I'll share my most difficult moment.

    I was in high school, this female of fine an pretty nature Megan MacArthur sat next to me in one of my classes. Anytime I would find a place it would be next to her... she smiled like a queen and was very gentle.... I desired to couple with said female... in the end I tried asking her very politely if she had a phone number I could call, I was like "maybe I could call ya sometime" to which her reply was "Um I don't have a phone".

    This is the classic example of unintentional anguish, for I truly believed this girl had no phone, only later when in art class did I learn the horrible truth.. a girl was sitting around laughing, she told her friends some guy had asked her out an she told him "I don't have a phone". So it was with me, this female of mine used that same lie!

    So there you have it, my worst moment of rejection an one that left me scarred for a long, long time... honestly telling me you have no phone just cuz I wanted to hear your pretty voice outside of class, shame shame

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  3. one_raven God is a Chinese Whisper Valued Senior Member

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    You're the only one.
     
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  5. darksidZz Valued Senior Member

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    :shrug:
     
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  7. BenTheMan Dr. of Physics, Prof. of Love Valued Senior Member

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    Damn dude. Maybe you should just start asking every woman you meet out. You'll get rejected so many times that rejection will lose all meaning.

    Then you can ask the girls out that you like, and when they turn you down (as many surely will---they turn us all down) you won't spend ten years trying to forget which bitch it was lied to you about having a phone.
     
  8. Tom2 Registered Senior Member

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    I guess my favorite one was at a party. I spotted this girl who I'd noticed around campus, and I was just about to ask her to dance.

    Me: "Hey there I'm Tom, I've seen you around campus. Would you like to dance?"

    Bitch: "Um...with you? I don't think so."

    Me: "That's OK, I have to go take a shit anyway."

    Haven't heard from her since. :shrug:
     
  9. fishtail Registered Senior Member

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    I tried to get a date with this gorgeous bird, but she rejected every advance
    i made, so i shot myself then fell in front of a speeding train on an electrified
    line, it has taken 10 years to pull myself back together.
     
  10. temur man of no words Registered Senior Member

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    I slept with a girl and tried to do the thing but she refused. I only got to use my fingers on her and my thing was like wood.
     
  11. BenTheMan Dr. of Physics, Prof. of Love Valued Senior Member

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    That's pretty fucking funny Tom.
     
  12. temur man of no words Registered Senior Member

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    Once I only got blowjob but not the thing.
     
  13. Sciencelovah Registered Senior Member

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    woo darksidZz, actually for a girl to reject a guy is also not a nice experience.
    Nobody enjoy to hurt other ppl, I am sure. I suggest that you make friends
    with woman friends first before looking for girl friend.

    Anyway, take it easy. There are many fish in the ocean. As long as you
    dont fish at Dead Sea

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  14. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    dark "I desired to couple with said female"

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    You talk funny......From reading your posts I am almost thinking
    to myself can this guy really be for real? or is he killing himself
    laughing telling us all this crap about mating with a female.:shrug:
     
  15. ShyLady Registered Member

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    Well I got a good laugh,

    I am currently trying to handle some rejection, and this morning was finding it kinda hard to think about. Y'all guys cheered me right up, just hearing about other experiences lets me know I'm not alone.

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  16. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    Yeah doesn't it make you feel better when you find out how
    pathetic some other ppls lives are......:bugeye:
     
  17. phlogistician Banned Banned

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    Here's your problem, right here;

    See, if all you want to do is screw, well, it's not attractive. When you ask a girl out, it should be so you can find out more about them, because they interest you, not just because you have a boner.
     
  18. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    haha oh the experts are coming out of the woodwork now......how to get a woman.....I should make a thread about this, it would be an interesting read lol
     
  19. DanceAndExplode Fear me, for I am Death. Registered Senior Member

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    Hey darksidzz, here's my story... (it has a happy ending!!)lol

    I was friends with this guy for ages, and i'd started liking him sometime last year. i'd liked him for about 6months, and he knew it. he told me he didn't like me and just wanted to stay friends... i was pretty cut as you could imagine, but unwillingly continued to like him... i'd pretty much given up all hope on him, until about 2 months ago, when he told me that he liked me.

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    We then started going out and have been going out for 6 or 7 weeks, so far...

    What i'm trying to say, is this: build a strong friendship with the person first, then see where things go from there. Get to know them as a person, and not as sexual object for "mating purposes." make sure you respect them 100%, and that they respect you.

    And you may have to wait, but eventually something could happen. i waited for like a year for this one guy, and things eventually paid off.
     
  20. Zakariya04 and it was Valued Senior Member

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    HELLO dARKSIDE,

    I hope all goes well with you.

    I have quite a few rejection stories from when i was in my late teens early twenties, back in those days i had a 50/50 percent achievement ratio with the girls. Nowadays if i split up with my wife for example, i would not have the faintest clue how to go about developing a relationship with a girl, whether it be a Hit and run style gurilla attack or a Long haul job.

    I have had the "oh your really nice buti lets just be/stay friends" lines on a few occasions. I cant actually think of any real hard ones to swallow, but i am sure they will come back to me soon. i will repost then.

    However Darkside, as BenTheMan Suggests just ask a load of girls out and get used to the knock backs then you are bound to get it going on with one or 2, just through the law of averages, just look at it as a numbers game.

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    take it ez
    zak
     
  21. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    Here is a little something ..This is what could happen if you say these things......REJECTED

    Q: Does beauty run in your family?
    A: It obviously doesn't in yours!

    Q: "Haven't I seen you someplace before?"
    A: "Yes, that's why I don't go there anymore


    "I want to give myself to you."
    "Sorry, I don't accept cheap gifts."
     
  22. vslayer Registered Senior Member

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    sammy; rejection isnt a problem, ive been rejected plenty of times, but you have to remember not to let it get to you. just laugh it off and move on.

    some examples:

    actually it does, it just skips a generation, im sure you can relate.

    dont want to get recognised post-op eh?

    upon second reading those seem much colder than the responses i would usually give on the spot, but you get the idea.
     
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  23. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    yeah some girls are just naturally bitches.....to everyone.....wait unless you are hot .......wait no unless you drive a fancy car......wait and have lots of money to spend......YOU DONT WANT THOSE ANYWAY......
     

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