What is happening here! SAM and Inzomnia are back - when I was last here I read their bye byes. SAM and Shorty agree, pinch pinch!
Hehe.. I am back Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Last time I said 'bye' because it was the last few days in Germany before I had to visit my parent in Indonesia for two months. By my activities in sciforums on that last few days, my bf felt ignored. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! However, now I already return to Germany, and for past one week till tomorrow my bf is in Turkey to follow the world water forum. Also, he basically doesn't mind, as long as I can manage my time. And welcome back to you, too! Where have you been..??
Good! I had just forgotten Sciforums for a while - it was not as interesting without some interesting people Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Aww, thanks. It is indeed interesting. S.A.M., Oli, Norsefire, etc are back Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Now I am looking forward to the return of Dr. Lou :fright:
But it would be immoral to become intimate. He has a wife, I have a husband. If the boss had been a woman, would that have been better? If I had been male would that have been better? What level of intimacy are you thinking it was Sam?
I don't like that idea. It would be very hard to prevent that kind of relationship from degenerating into emotional intimacy.
why? Its not the purpose of the whole thing. :shrug: Its like a marriage without all the emotional crap, without any sexual tension. Anyways, for me it was like I was Radar and he was Colonel Potter.
wow I didn't expect these sort of moral standing from no other but VI! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Fair enough if you simply had a co worker who you got on very well with and helped each other. But it should be a businesslike symbiosis, not an emotionally intimate one.
Yeah I don't get it....:shrug: What does a " Work Spouse" do then, that just a plain old assistant wouldn't? Because from the Wiki definition it sounds like a a lot more then an assistant or office helper. And who came up with this label "Work Spouse" ?
I wasn't thinking anything, I just don't think I could be in a "relationship" like that and not get emotionally involved.
