You can also regret being had! Talk to me. I never wanted kids and had a vasectomy before I even met my wife. There are lots of kids out there being "raised" by people who should not have had them. Some of these are the ones who regret being had. It's not like the world is running out of population! Huh? The others are welcome to have the way of life to which they feel entitled. How does that translate into browbeating VI into NOT having the way of life to which she feels entitled???
