It is relatively easy to discuss risk assessment in rational terms until you have been a victim. The statistics look a lot different from that side of the fence even if the figures appear rather miniscule to others. Until you have experienced a thing, you cannot truly know of it, IMO. I was never raped but I did experience what is termed 'sexual interference'. It took me a long time to learn to trust anyone of the male gender and made it very hard for me to make friends of either gender. Something inside you just curls up and goes into defensive mode after your trust and/or your person has been violated.