Ron, fair enough. Just don't show so much weakness in public, it attracts bullies like honey attracts flies. I think thats the point that spuriousmonkey was making, even though I don't agree with the philosophy that bullies should target the weak, in reality that is exactly how the world is. Predators usually target the weakest, so while I cannot divide the world into bullies and victims, if you are to cry in public and show too much weakness, you will attract people who hate weakness and who's job is to attack and destroy it. Very much like cats have the instinct to chase mice, many humans still have these carnivore hunter instincts to attack a smaller animal for the fun of watching it cry in pain as it suffers a slow painful death.