Masturbation is for Losers

Lori,

I picked up on your statement -

That's looks incredibly like guilt. How else should one interpret "not pure or positive"?

 

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I did not stop masturbating or having sex because of religious beliefs. I stopped because I wanted to. I found that over time, I developed a negative association with it. I came to feel more and more like I was settling for something that I had known since the very beginning was not sastifying. I'm simply looking for the utmost in fulfillment, and I'm no longer willing to settle for anything less than that. So I've found that my urges have diminished in regards to the cheap substitutes. I mean, why would you have an urge for something that you don't want? I would be having an urge for something that I have a negative association with. I'm just like a pavlov dog, man.

 

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I would say that "not pure or positive" would be relative and subject to the perceptions of an individual.

Let me ask you...is there any porn "out there" that you would consider to be "not pure or positive"? Do you draw any lines at all, no matter how arbitrary they may be?

 

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Lori,

I guess it comes down to whatever makes you happy. There is certainly a disciplined intellectualy satisfying aspect to being "choosy", although with some degree of reasonable compromise.

 

Oh yea, choosey moms choose Jesus.

 

Lori,

Oh for sure. I find much of it a big turn off. But that seems to be a different issue. What you seem to be saying is that you no longer find masturbation enjoyable. OK. I could perhaps argue for trying different techniques but I'm no expert here. And I accept that many people reach a point where it is simply not important or just too much effort.

 

Lori,

Too late - he either never existed or he is most certainly dead.

 

Tabloid journalism is far more accurate than the bible, and even that is largely fabricated.

The bible says a lot of things about Jesus, including that he was stone dead, came back to life then 'ascended' up to heaven. COME ON... You want me to follow these stories as fact?

I'm not going to base fiction as a rule NOT to masturbate if I want to.

 

Kenny,

I would never suggest that you do such a thing.

And Chris,

Yea, yea, you understand me. I was afraid that I didn't say it quite right, referring to a "negative" association. Cause it's more like a "blah" association..."blah, bleh, yea, this just isn't any fun anymore"...like wearing out a toy or something...it's just not as fun as it used to be....it's just not fulfilling at all. It never was fulfilling actually, it's jut that I'm not willing to settle for this unfulfillment anymore. God gave me a vision of something so much better, and since, I just don't want anything else. It's like you may have been poor and eaten bologna and spam your whole life. And you always liked bologna and spam, and you didn't really know you were poor so you didn't really have anything to compare it to. But then one day, you strike it rich and someone serves you your first filet mignon. There's just no going back you know? And even though I haven't tasted the filet yet myself, I've seen the filet, and I've been told a thing or two about the filet, and I'm drooling over it, and I'm just not having anything else. Nice analogy huh? My soulmate's a vegan...lol...and a grade A piece of prime beefcake.

 

He's not dead Cris. I wouldn't lie to you. But still, don't take my word for it.

 

This is your idea of "hot"? Aww, how pathetic. And this is no delusion. This is being born again, and is very real.

And when me and my soulmate are brought together and have our baby, then you can just spank Darwin's monkey, ok?

 

Lori,

I know since he never existed.

But that doesn't mean that anything you say is true.

Don't worry, I wont.

 

Not cute, sad.
Confused.
Ignorant. (masturbation actually increases sperm count)
Deluded.
Please do not reproduce.

 

That's the problem with delusions - those who have them think they are real.

 

Hmm doubt that Lori will be too worried about that.

 

Well if masturbation increases your sperm count, then wouldn't it stand to reason that having "God sex" with your soulmate would too? And what good is all of that sperm doing if you're masturbating anyway? It's just making a mess in your sock.

 

Better my 'sock' than 'yours'!
I truly hope that you are sterile.
'God sex'!
Hahahahahaahahahahahahahaahahahahaha.....!!!!

 

Oh please. Just because something exists doesn't mean it must stay there, or that it is good that it is there.

And what is normal? It is only various worldviews, claiming what is normal and what isn't.

Desire is, by definition, insatiable. Any desire.

 

How can you allow yourself such a blunder?! Doing as if you had proven a negative ...

 

Christ is not dead.
He's life itself.
An eternal existence.
Without life, there is nothing.
Your self is immortal because it is life, way and truth.