Xev: You've just described yourself, gendy and many other women in that last sentence. But there's one thing you seem to have missed in your generalisation. Not all women want to be tamed. If that's how you view yourself, then fine. But don't clump all women together into the little box that you've created for yourself. Neither can you. I seem to recall that you went away on holidays and still posted in here. And if she didn't, you'd call her a bad mother and a bitch. Gendy: Taking yourself a tad too seriously there aren't you? You a few others in here view yourselves as queens and you assume that the rest view you as such. You assume that it puts you above everyone else. What you've failed to realise is that it makes you just as sad as everyone else. You crave the attention. You post certain comments in the bid that 'your kind' would swarm to you. You see yourselves as outside the norm, as the rebels, but in reality you aren't. The rebels are the one's who went before you and you are merely followers basking in their wake, claiming their lives as your own. You see gendy, women like Arditezza and I have no need for 'needy romance'. We've been there and done that. We no longer dream of shagging movie stars like Johnny Depp. You could say that we've grown up. You think because we love we are needy, cripples and part of the herd. But in truth, it is you who actually seeks to be 'in wuv'. You make fun of it, but your words only show that you are merely making fun of something you know nothing about but want to know so much. In short gendy, people like Arditezza and I don't need a platform to talk about love or life. We live it on a daily basis. We don't seek it out because it's simply there. So do you. Otherwise you wouldn't be posting here at all. Let me guess. You take aspirin on a daily basis just in case you develop a clot, don't you? Well I've had enough. Goodbye for now.